Stuck in the fantasy?

Sementeries · 2015-09-24T03:32:27+00:00

Yes, with that attitude.

All I'm seeing lately is a bunch of dudes thinking that just because they've read the sidebar they'll automatically be in bed with a girl. "Forever alone. God, I'm a loser", what kind of girl wants somebody with that self-esteem? If you think you're not good enough, who will?

Lifting is advised so heavily here because it makes you want to go out and pursue things with this new found confidence that going to the gym and busting your ass gives you. Getting that extra rep in when you don't think you can, your whole body is shaking like a Pinto, you clench your teeth, and you bust that bitch out. You get done with your workout and you walk outside, you feel like you can breathe fire just knowing that you can put yourself under something heavy and endure the stress.

Putting in hard work at the gym will make you physically and mentally strong. If you don't think it will then take this as a challenge, you may start off with doing minimal weight, but everyone started from somewhere.

Continue doing day game or setting up dates; don't let rejection or flakes persuade you to stop. The best thing you can do with having a community like this is that you know you're not alone. Everybody here takes it day by day, getting better and better, trying to be the best version of ourselves.

Be better than the person you were yesterday. Every. Single. Day.

Stick around.

JeffsRP · 2015-09-24T02:46:28+00:00

How can I get out there and start taking massive action?

You don't.

You take small steps.

You don't go to the gym for the first time and expect to squat 400lbs. You start on an empty bar; you add a little weight every time.

Getting a number is massive progress. It feels good.

"not feeling bad because you didn't get a number". That's progress too. Approaching 5 seconds after spotting a chick is progress compared to approaching after half an hour of sitting and staring creepily across the food court.

Lot's of little successes is the way to go.

Kyrile · 2015-09-24T10:43:26+00:00

1 year ten approaches. That's your problem.

Ive known red pill for a few months. I have approached literally around the hundred mark. A dozen dates. Several lays. One infatuated girl who I gamed until she believed I was the ONE and gave it up and then I went immediately NC to blow up her mind and ruin her.

Open more over and over until you are having fun opening and laughing at the bitches whether they say no yes or whatever it doesn't matter what they say.

I actually have sometime been purposely propositioning the ones who say no in entirely inaprop ways because its funny watching them squirm in front of their friends/family/work/boyfriends and it gets me warmed up for real openings.

Title	Stuck in the fantasy?
Author	Chad_Thundercock69
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	September 24, 2015 2:28 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	/r/askTRP
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