Every guy I know who has a lot of success of women, even personalities from the internet like RSD Tyler, are people who talk rather fast, laugh about lot of things, be active and "alive".

It's the complete opposite I read here where you should be calm, relaxed, confident your in body by slowly moving your head and hands, take time to answer a question and so on. Things like stoic and keep frame is often talked in regard to be non reactive.

What is the best way to act if you could chose a personality to get a lot attraction from women?