Far as I know, sometimes it happens outside of the bedroom and it's about girls acting up/shit testing to incite a dominant-possessive-daddy type response.

Kinda seems like a comfort test variant to me, where what they're looking after is some reassurance that you care or they can get a reaction out of you. Bottoming from the top and all that shit.

Reminds me of shit some insecure plates do right before breaking, where they're not sure where they stand with you so they start trying to get you to be more lovey dovey while pulling some shit testing stunts bordering on disrespect in public, like talking to other guys blatantly tryna make you jealous.

Just curious to know your interpretation on this.