My girl is overseas for the last few months. She comes back this summer from being a missionary.

She shit tested me the other day.

"hey can you talk?" I'm having breakfast with me friends "oh nvm. or.. .how long will it be? please call me after" so I tell her it'll be an hour, a fair compromise. there's like a 14 hour time difference so it'd be like midnight for her when I called.

I call in an hour and we chat for a bit, nothing abnormal. Just a normal conversation.

But since then she's been really distant.

Normally she'll at least text back within the same twelve hour period (time difference makes it hard) but at least there's a response.

there isn't much of a response this time. i mean there is sometimes but there's osmething different. and she called me "dude" at one point, and I quickly corrected her not to call me "dude. bro. man." she apologized and didn't again.

Idk what the deal is. Maybe it's that I caved into the shit test by compromising? I tried talking to her about it but she fell asleep, it was like 2am in asia where she is. It's actually pretty common that one of us will fall asleep mid conversation if its super late.

any advice based onthe information I gave? We've been writing letter s and communicating back and forth since we both left for mission in september, and she gets back in july. I came back in november.

Do I sound like a fucking blue pill?

ah. fuck.