Thot or not?

August 1, 2018

I wish there was such a subcategory, surveys to exchange on what other guys think. Everybody here has a different level of sensibility to these things...


April: This girl, near wall, joined my team in April. HB9, ex triathlete, has broken up with her LTR 3 months ago, a bit shy. I find her stunning, I tell myself "lucky I have a gf so I won't date her because she's 6 years older than me."

I know she's leaving the country soon so I let myself get close and of course few weeks later at a party we kiss. She invites me to her place that night, I politely decline. She messages me she likes me. But we've been kissing on and off since then, after social events when we are drunk and everybody else is gone.

May: she avoids me, says let's be friends because I have a gf and she can't do that to another girl. She is trying to date this other guy from the team who is single and quite cool, also older than me. They become close for a while, he ends up loosing interest.

June: this Brazilian football coach who works with her (she's a teacher) hits on her. Alpha ++, muscular, 6 pack, probably spinning 20 plates. She asks her friend "what do you think of hooking up with him just for sex: is it slutty or empowering?" her friends replies empowering. Few days later she invites him to her place and they bang. She tells her gay bf he's just a toy.

July: a Colombian guy she met and kissed at a party invites her for dinner, they get drunk together, they end up at his place. She messages him "I'm usually not like that, but I went with the flow, like you". Lol. 10 days later she sees the Brazilian again for an afternoon session. Then we party again and I end up at her place (no sex cause at 5am drunk and last minute thinking of my gf I couldnt have a boner).

August: she left the country today.


My oneitis is healing. I'm still with my gf. But lots of "what if" in my mind. If I had been single, I'd probably be dating her now. But I'm wondering what guys here think:

Thot or not? is her behavious "normal" for a girl approaching wall or is it "unacceptable" from a potential LTR point of view? Let's say, you meet this girl now and find super hot and cool but learn about this episode of her life, how do you react?

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Title Thot or not?
Author Bruchibre
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Date August 1, 2018 11:36 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]blondemeansbusiness 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Massive thot, probably riddled with STDs.

Also, if you're so easily besotted by someone other than your gf, what are you still doing with her? Do the dignified thing and set her free, buddy. You wouldn't want to stick around if she were doing the same, would ya?

[–]Bruchibre[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was wondering how much of a thot. Massive, thanks :)

I know that's the thing I should do. But I can't let her go. She's a special snowflake... more seriously, I feel like quitting her to end up with some thot, I'd regret it eventually. And she is very dependant on me, pretty much textbook RP girlfriend. So... I compromise with myself.

I'd definitely not stick around if she was doing half of what I'm doing. But it's not about her, right? actually my question was about the massive thot.

[–]RedSkeller3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She a ho. You should try not going home with her if you weren't going to stick it in. You had multiple opportunities and a significant amount of time to make up your mind and you pussed out hard. Nothing worse than a man who doesn't own up, quit cheating on your girlfriend and break up.

[–]Bruchibre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Every time I went back with her it was 3 or 4 am highly intoxicated, it didn't work. My mind wanted to do it but it didn't work.

I "own up"... I went for it and am now casually talking about it.

[–]donkeydodo1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

All girls have the ability to bransch swing, your oneitis for her is because she ditched you which claims a higher SMV, thus your hamster going raving in your head. You want what you can’t have, focus on yourself and don’t be an orbiter if she contacts your, only then you will be able to have sex with her

[–]Bruchibre[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for reading and answering.

she ditched you

she didn't really ditch me... we were never together, she knows since day 0 that I have a gf. Actually she tried to cut it off saying she felt bad about it, but she would always come back to me. We kissed many times, ended up naked in bed a few times. But to her, we are just friends. I'm pretty sure that if I had been single, we'd have ended up dating.

I'm quite an orbiter but as I said, she'll always contact me, we'd meet up, kiss, eventually go a bit further. I'm sort of an emotional tampon. Some guys take advantage of girls for sex, some girls do it for emotion?

I remember a conversation we had:

"- it's a pity you have a girlfriend. I feel bad knowing I'm number 2.

- well you are also seeing other guys, so what number am I? 2, 3, 4, 5?

- [...processing...] you can do that when you're single"

Then we changed the topic.

[–]donkeydodo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fair enough, she might be your orbiter then!

[–]Bruchibre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough, she might be your orbiter then!

I wouldn't go that far. She's weird, been orbiting a couple of other guys. I know she still has feels for this first guy of May, they had a short affair but he totally bailed on her. I'd like to know why but don't dare asking him. I don't think he knows about me and her but I don't want to check, we are actually very good friends, that would be awkward conversation to talk about a girl we've both been with. + the Brazilian dude who came to her place 3 or 4 times in the afternoon for a banging session :) they talk a lot though. She's definitely a plate for him.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She sounds like a basic whore. Just P&D.

[–]Bruchibre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Definitely basic, disappointing knowing how hot she is. She really is stunning and hot, both. And still has low self esteem. P&D was the goal but I got caught between oneitis and thoughts of my gf. Maybe if I see her again and we're away from social mess.

[–]Incaahhh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck it man I say not. She's single and hot who gives a fuck what she does. The main issue personally is whether she had protected sex or not. If she's out here getting fucked raw that's a huge red flag. It's a slippery slope though as we ultimately cannot say for sure how it went.

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