I [20M] went on a first date yesterday with this girl I’ve known from middle-high school. Our friend groups overlapped a bit back then and we’ve seen each other more after graduating since our friend groups merged a bit. We matched on tinder when I came home for the summer so I asked her out. We’re both very quiet/shy and she’s always been the type of person to avoid eye contact (which is a bit difficult for me to read). Yesterday we hung out in a park for a while and talked and since she wasn’t making much eye contact, I asked, “can I kiss you?” She said yes and we made out for a couple of minutes. You guys ever do this or do you think it kills the excitement of the kiss? It’s worked for me before and I think some girls find it cute. But I’m also curious to hear how you might react to someone shy avoiding eye contact.