There is a girl in my life right now I sense the potential to be real with and maybe even fall in love. Even as a RP man I do want to love and be loved, just with my eyes and options open.

She is going to a NYE party with a bunch of friends of mine, thankfully a few of whom I believe I can trust. I asked them outright to keep an eye on her and let me know if she's trying to jump on someone's dick.

Obviously I have some feelings involved. She has made it clear that she wants to keep seeing me and may want more than just being my plate. If her behavior matches her words, I'm down to invest more and see how it goes.

If she fucks someone else or tries to, I'm actually cool with that, will sting a bit but I will know where I stand. But the main thing will be seeing if she presents a congruent story. If she fucks someone and lets me know, good girl on her. I'm seeing someone else and she knows that and we have been honest about it. If she lies I know not to treat her as anything more than a plate.

Thoughts? Is this a reasonable thing to do when vetting a girl or am I just being insecure?