Hello, I’ve (23, 180, 6’2) been following RP for years now it has pretty much changed my life around and for that I thank you all. I was basically the bottom tier SMV wise but I completely turned that around. I do very well with women now and I’ve pretty much surpassed everyone I used to look up to around me in terms of SMV. My problem is with my friends girlfriends.

I have one friend we’ll call him Kyle whose girlfriend is just straight up weird with me, trying to hug me when everyone leaves etc just too touchy for a girlfriend of my friend imo. That’s besides the point.

My other friend we’ll call Steve has been dating or was dating this girl for like 2 years. There relationship was just toxic and you know how it goes they basically just constantly broke up all the time but never officially I guess.

Basically I’m on this app called Bumble(similar to Tinder) except the girl you match with has to message you first. Didn’t even realize it was Steves ex and we matched, and she hmu saying “Heyy 😊 u got Snapchat??”.

My first question is how do I tell my friend? And do I even tell him? Or just ignore it ever happened? Why did she even feel like she could hit me up or even have the balls to try and ask for my shit? Knowing I’m best friends with him?I’d never go after my friends ex, sister, or daughter. Off limits to me.

My real question is why do my friends girlfriends have such an interest in me? There are more examples but I have an issue with having to constantly maneuver away from my friends girls. Yes I think I have a higher SMV but I’m not the best at building rapport or flirting. Not tryna sell myself short but it’s as if I have a constant spotlight over me and it’s not really convenient.

I have a theory that my friends talk shit about me to there girlfriends (envy) and in return they become curious. Thoughts? Sorry for the novel lol