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Very close to losing my v card but need help

August 2, 2016

A little background first,

Im 16 years old and 1 month into a LTR with 15 Y/o hb7. Been RP for about a year now and have been acting on it for about 2 months. It has helped alot, especially considering I couldn't even hold a convorsation before trp.

Keep in mind, i'm playing this game on easy mode. (Attractive)

Have gotten to 3rd base and on my way to home, but that's the only problem. I can't achieve penetration yet. She's a virgin and so am I.

I've aten her out shes sucked my dick ALOT, its just I haven't convinced her to let me take her virginity, I need a little help i've never got this far before. She's very submissive so we created a safe word and ill have my wraped up dick about to slide into her and she says the safe word.

Should I next her? Or should I just stick with the LTR until it happens? What kino am I missing to escalate farther?

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Title Very close to losing my v card but need help
Author ElementArrow
Upvotes 4
Comments 8
Date August 2, 2016 12:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/very-close-to-losing-my-v-card-but-need-help.109200
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[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

An escalating tip you can try is to use the head of your cock to tease her. Use it to play with her clit and lips, make her want more.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No one here can tell you when she'll decide to fuck you but it seems like you're moving in the right direction. She's young and hesitant, and there's no magic pua trick that'll force her to put out before she wants to.

As far as whether or not you should next, that's up to you. Is the relationship satisfying in other ways or is the lack of PiV a deal-breaker? Do you have better odds with other girls? Only you can decide that. But since you're only 16, I don't think you should get too invested in any one girl. There's pretty much a zero percent chance you'll end up marrying her so you might as well use this time to see what else is out there instead of getting in over your head.

[–]Camberlain3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm pretty sure giving sex tips to 16 year old is against some sort of law.

[–]trpthroway1231 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Sometimes it's just going to take time, or a little bit of pulling back so she is willing to pull you closer. Maybe she's just waiting to hear "I love you" because she thinks that's how it's supposed to be. Maybe she's waiting for something romantic. Sometimes, it's just a mental block, and getting her to want it badly is the key. In my book, that's just LMR.

I've had success with finger fucking in that scenario. Basically, just put your hand in your crotch, palm out, and fuck her with a finger or two (instead of your dick). Works great if she's on top. Play with her pussy, tease her with the head of your dick, and slide it in without asking.

She'll either stop you outright/hop off/say safe word, in which case you would have failed anyway, or she'll make you put on a condom (congratulations).

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[–]trpthroway1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was probably your age the last time I asked permission for something.

Just make the move and do it, she'll say no if she's not down, she'll stop you one way or another. It avoids her LMR and slut-defense, because "it just sorta happened".

Of course, no means no, stop means stop, don't force it. There's a fine line to be walked.

[–]brooklynisburnin1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dread, she's not giving you everything you want, you shouldn't give her everything she wants.

[–]RedSkeller0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would ask how often you are hanging out. If it's every day - dial it back. As others have said you need more dread game (search bar) and need a better transitioning point. For instance, wrap your dick and spoon her, rubbing her clit with it for a good long while passionately kissing her and rubbing her body. You'll create enough heat where it might accidentally slide in and she can hamster a backstory.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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