I made a post the other day about a girl I was talking to from tinder and I realized that she seemed evasive when I asked to hang out and was no longer hitting me up. If she did call the phone calls were dry and boring. When I first started talking to her she was blowing up my phone like crazy and constantly double and triple texting me. Calling me throughout the day. I've been the top option plenty of times throughout college (I just recently graduated a few months ago) but never got the amount of attention from a cute girl like I did with her. However I couldn't see her because my mom was still sick with Covid-19. I had been furloughed from work and forced to move back home. I was going through a tough time and she provided a distraction. At that moment she was my only option.

I knew going into talking to her from years of experience and red pill conditioning that if I couldn't strike within the first week or two of talking to her that it was over. However I got sucked in thinking I could extend the window a few weeks. Of course the law of averages happened and two weeks (she was so desperate to see me) in she offered to drive to the store, buy gluten free ingredients (I eat gluten free), bake me and my mom a get well cake for her birthday and drive 20 miles to drop it off and eat it with us while social distancing. I rejected her thinking I would get friend zoned (she liked me too much for it to happen) and didn't want her to go out of her way. Anyways that was the nail in the coffin. After that she still continued to call me and text me but was much less enthusiastic but when talking to me.

I suggested going out that next weekend or stop by her place for a but she was evasive. I kept reaching out every 5 days. Last night I was over at friends and the girls suggested I text her. We were all drunk. She responded but was cold. When I point blank asked her to hang out she said sorry I'm not down. You guys told me not to reach out and this would happen but I did trying to justify.

I'm still getting over it hence the post. Wanted to give you guys a thanks. If my mom wasn't sick I would've been smashing her that first weekend. Time to move on. Onto the next.

Check out this post if you haven't read it. When I was her top option I was never worried about her responding or initiating. Then I was.

https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4368/you_re_not_her_top_option