Obviously I'm not the only dude that finds a particular girl attractive but it's frustrating. I find a girl I like, I talk to her, and eventually the "oh I have a bf" line always comes out.

What frustrates me more is the girls I'm not interested in are the ones that give me attention and are available! Don't get me wrong I'm glad someone finds me attractive but it's not the girl I want.

I don't want the most hot girl but maybe my standards are too high or I limit myself by going for certain girls. I don't know, I just wish I could find a girl who isn't taken and the feelings are mutual.