what does 'fuck her good' mean?

December 1, 2018

The question might seem stupid but hear me out. I don't know what a good fuck means. Please ELI5 me. Is it enough to just stick your dick in and out for a long time? Is there a special angle I need to pay attention to? I really have no idea about the basics of good sex. And ironically even though the internet is filled with porn there are barely any informative videos out there. I read the sex god method already but that deals more about the mental part, whereas I am lacking in proper thrusting technique.

Any info or resources are highly appreciated. Thanks

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Title what does 'fuck her good' mean?
Author throaoeooeoaway
Upvotes 74
Comments 50
Date December 1, 2018 4:45 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]light-----------dark153 points154 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

  • Lead the entire experience.

  • Explore her body while kissing, licking, massaging, biting, smelling, touching.

  • Giver her a clitoral orgasm (tongue or fingers), follow up with g-spot orgasm with clitoral stimulation, and then she will be wet enough for penetration.

  • Feel into your and her body as you penetrate. Self awareness is key here. If you can feel into the dynamic, you’ll last for hours if you desire.

  • Let the passion take over, and she’ll be fucked good. This is where the dominant animal inside of you expresses itself.

These are the basics.

[–]bruiser188 points9 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

If you can feel into the dynamic, you’ll last for hours if you desire.

Could you elaborate a bit?

[–]light-----------dark22 points23 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Ejaculation - and lack thereof, in this case - is more mental than it is physical. Being self aware of one’s feelings and sensations allows for proper control over said experience. This control can allow for one to have sex for hours w/out ejaculating.

[–]SlappaDaBayssMon10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I honestly only cum 50% of the time I have sex now.

Still love it, still feels great but if I do too many "too close but still wanna fuck more" breaks eventually it gets really difficult to cum.

When a round 2 happens I'll usually make that more about me and instead of an hour it'll be like 10 minutes

[–]123_Meatsauce-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link


[–]SlappaDaBayssMon19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Isn't his the part where I retype my post but in all caps?

[–]bruiser187 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Nice, I'll need to practice this more. I'd imagine mindfulness would help. It's nice to be able to go to town on a girl without cumming inside 5 minutes haha

[–]light-----------dark16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Sex for hours is magical.

Sex for minutes is not.

Yes, mindfulness is a key component.

Wish you well !

[–]bruiser184 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Likewise brotha

[–]tenXten6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hmm...not always true. I've had some women comment on my endurance. Not in a bad way, but you can tell that she'd like me to pop sooner. (I never do though)

[–]X-Trem01 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I totally agree with you. More is not always better. Not long ago a girl freaked out because she starting thinking that I didn't liked her because I was taking so long... it was fucked up and it ruined the rest of a great weekend

[–]MGRaiden9756 points57 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lots of foreplay. Girls love foreplay. Touch her body, rub it, pleasure her with your tongue, kiss her neck, everything! Do it all BEFORE sticking your dick in. Take your time too. This is the step MOST guys fuck up on because all they want to do is put their dick in and jackhammer. Most of the time a girl doesn't want that.

Pay the fuck attention to her body language and see what she likes and wants. She's not going to verbally tell you what she wants

[–]SlappaDaBayssMon11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I want to add that foreplay starts before the bedroom.

Flirt, tease, touch, allure - do things to make her look forward to the fun times that are to be had when you get back to your place.

This works especially well if you can do it on the down low in public. My girl loves it when I whispered dirty shit in her ear while we're out and about.b

[–]omega_dawg9329 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

  1. 70% plus of women can't orgasm from penetration alone.
  2. learn to use your fingers, toys, and esp. your TONGUE to get her off.
  3. at least 75% of the time, make sure she gets at least one orgasm before you get yours. women hardly ever talk bad about guys who truly believe in, "ladies first," because many have been left with no orgasm after giving one.
  4. all the vagina nerve endings are upfront. learn her g-spot and don't worry about fast or deep penetration as much. if you have the time, interest, and penis (length), learn about stimulating the anterior and posterior fornix areas; google it if you need. size matters for these pleasure spots, but technique and angles can get those areas stimulated if you're patient & creative.
  5. dominate her. i'm not talking that 50 shades bullshit. but act like you're a porn director and place her and verbally direct her on where/how you want her. when a woman gives herself to you, she expects you to take her for YOUR pleasure.
  6. cum inside her as often as you can. leave your dick in her and deposit your DNA; it will 'connect' her to you in other ways. note: women have told me this; i have no scientific proof. pulling out and facials are for porn; women like to feel your thrusting & throbbing.
  7. break your routine. pull off-road to a secluded spot and fuck her in the woods, in the car, finger her under a table, etc. be 'bad' in public... adventurous, etc. discreetly grab her ass and tits in public... whisper, "i can't wait to take you when we get home," in her ear.
  8. what makes a good sex experience for women isn't just about the in/out of penetrative sex. good sex is the innuendo, tension & build-up, covert & overt flirting, grabbing, etc., during the day BEFORE you get naked. for men, sex can be pull it out, stick it in, bang until you cum, done. for women, it's more like a story... with sex as the physical representation of her giving herself to you emotionally.

[–]cat_magnet6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ive heard that 70% of women can't cum from penetration often but how true is it? About 80% of the fwbs / ltrs ive had have been able to cum from penetration. Anecdotal I know but I just don't buy it. I have a regular sized Johnson and don't think its anything I do special.

[–]omega_dawg932 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

it's based on stats from sex studies. in my experience, it's about true. my current gf cums from me sucking her nipples and kissing her inner thighs; she probably cum if i rub her elbow long enough. lol. and i've been with women who could ONLY cum from masturbation and/or toys.

and many won't like this, but cock size does matter (for some women). these women cum from getting their anterior/posterior fornix areas stimulated, and that takes deep(er) penetration. then, once you're in those areas, you have to know WTF to do to stimulate the area(s).

women are VERY, VERY different from each other and can be very complicated sexually; the things that can make them cum are often emotionally tied to their physical experience.

iow, if she's into you, you can likely get her off. if she's not into you or has a LOT of other stuff on her mind, good luck; this is why putting her in a positive emotional state, FOREPLAY, etc. is soooooo important in getting women to cum.

[–]captaintrippay11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Foreplay is key. No seriously. How much foreplay is too much? There's no such thing. Lose yourself in the moment. Quit thinking, get out of your head. Do what feels right. Pay attention! If her moans or body language says she likes what you're doing, keep fucking doing it. Don't speed up, don't go harder. Do exactly what you've been doing.

Practice makes perfect and compatibility is a big factor. Some girls you'll click with and others you won't and that's okay.

[–]Crowstarz40 points41 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Sex god method-read that book. You'll understand the meaning of fuck her good

[–]DumbledoresFerrari12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I read the sex god method already but that deals more about the mental part, whereas I am lacking in proper thrusting technique.

[–]Kn1ght08 points9 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Where can you find the book? I can't find it anywhere

[–]anontgb4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


You're All Welcome.

[–]red_matrix7 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

It’s on Amazon and I’m sure you can find the PDF online...

[–]obi-xander5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Why is it 1400$ on amazon though.... weird

[–]leidogbei 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

money laundering

[–]obi-xander0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Weird. That’s interesting though.

[–]red_matrix5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s free online....look harder lol

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can you really put a price on knowledge?

[–]JONUTUNIVERSALU0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can't find it as well

[–]Psychological_Radish60 points61 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

As Oscar Wilde said, everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.

An Alpha guy in the streets is expected to be Alpha in the bedroom. Take control and tell her what to do, use her as your little fuck toy, bang the shit out of her. Better if you last more than a few minutes because that demonstrates self-control. I used to worry about whether a girl was having a good time and getting off, but the truth is that most of them don't care about that shit. What they care about is submitting to masculine power.

That's what keeps a girl coming back. Orgasm is a nice bonus, but the sex is more about validating her femininity. An Alpha fuck isn't sweet, romantic, and gentle. It's dominant, threatening even.

[–]nester7919 points20 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I slightly disagree. I’m fucking a married woman whose husband fucks her just like the way you describe - alpha, doesn’t give a fuck, cums and leaves. She can’t stand him because she never gets off and doesn’t orgasm...to the point now she never gets wet and they have to use lube so she can fulfill her “duty sex”. They get in fights quite a bit because she no longer puts out for him.

All the while I’ve never used lube and she’s dripping wet when we fuck. While her husband is busy not giving a fuck about her I'm fucking her bareback after giving her a fun time out.

Sex is about dominance - that's an absolutely statement but it's also about emotion and immersion (read sex God method).

[–]DwightWolftail42 points43 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Although I agree with you, I wouldn't be too eager to believe what a woman says about her husband...

[–]KilluaKanmuru6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bad sex/no sex is probably the #1 indicator of divorce. So, it's easy to believe her. If she's not getting off, she's gonna let someone know i.e., the other dude she bangs around with or her friends.

[–]SalporinRP6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with your last sentence. I've found in my experience that the female orgasm is pretty much 50% physical 50% mental. A handsome guy with 6/10 technique (thrusting, angles, mastery of positions, etc.) will be able to make a woman cum more than an ugly guy with better technique.

I thought I was good at sex beforehand but Sex God method raised me to another level and made me realize I didn't know shit beforehand.

[–]JW_2-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

How did you get a plate w a married woman? It’s one of my fantasies.

[–]nester790 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Through being fun and charming at work. I've "dated" 4-5 married women in my life. A lot of it has to do with the nature of working in a high demand and stressful job where lives are at stake. You be the anchor and the rock during those moments.

[–]es14268 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lmao. TRP sometimes...

I mean, finesse helps man. Every plate I spin tells me I drive them wild with edging, dirty talk, teasing etc.

Fuck intelligently, not like a complete ogre. My record for a single fuck was 24 orgasms before I was done. There is no doubt to me she’d be asking for more the next day and I didn’t look like a gorilla doing it, if anything it’s more like surgery.

[–]Psychological_Radish2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Alright clearly there's a lot more to sex than simply thrusting until you bust a nut. But for guys who don't know what the hell they're doing, better to err on the side of pure dominance than technique. She expects confidence both in and out of the bedroom. Even if you don't know what to do, pretend you do. If the relationship lasts for more than a few bangs, then you can start discussing what you both like and that sort of thing.

There are plenty of Betas out there who are "great" at sex, always make sure the woman cums, etc. Lots of Beta men I know like to brag about their pussy eating skills. This is the technique side of the equation, but it is secondary. Dominance - being Alpha both in and out of the bedroom - is what keeps her coming back.

[–]The_Belony2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't "no orgasm" mean that you suck in bed?

[–]Shyrk13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This isn’t super helpful in and of itself, but you need more experience. Have you had a long-term girlfriend before?

TRP shits on LTRs as a matter of record, but to start getting your bearings on what being a good lover means, I believe it is essential. You can beat the shit out of a thousand thots and still learn literally nothing about pleasing a woman.

LTR or at least FWB up a girl you can easily lock in, and spend some time really learning what she likes. Get your angles down, fuck around with dominance plays, learn about what works with her while enjoying yourself and then drop her and get another one. Try the same tricks and see what translates and what doesn’t. Certain tricks always work (hair pulling, light choking, ass smacking, pinning arms down, dominant language, leading the position changes etc) but certain things like oral techniques, specific kinks, language, smacking/spitting, assplay, others will vary by girl. You will never learn what the common denominators are until you fuck with a bunch of chicks, honestly.

When you grab your next one, LEAD THE INTERACTION ALWAYS BE LEADING THE INTERACTION, but PAY ATTENTION to what actually makes her gush like a waterfall, and what she is simply playing along with because you are in control. THIS is the way to start learning what women are actually on average super excited to experience. Then you calibrate based on this info to create the sex that will give them the experience you think is worth putting out and get YOU the sex you want.

Sex God Method is like a cheat code. Use it and use it wisely, but remain aware that you need to do your homework and there is really only one way.

[–]Kamiwari7277 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The ideal is if she orgasms every time you have sex. No matter in what way you do it. One of my plates likes my fingers more than my dick. The other one likes only my dick. But they all orgasm. It's the only thing that matters (I am biased towards making them cum, because they are all plates, and nothing keeps them close to me, except physical and mental pleasure. We are selfish creatures.)

Yeah, they like to be dominated, they like variety and emotion and immersion, just like the Sex God Method says, but it's all useless if you don't make her cum.

Especially when considering the way that women cum. You could throw them in tantrums of ecstasy. Jesus man, if only I could cum that way.

But most of it is mental.

The physical part you can read up on in any manual and once you know the basics you are ready.

But in that mental part is where they will get the most enjoyment.

And be vary that you should tailor your approach to sex with every girl differently. Not one of them is the same in bed.

[–]inspiredshane5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think they mean “fuck her well”.

[–]revaforce4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Put them legs behind her ears, fucka like a rabbit

[–]TuhTodayJr3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why do I feel like this is a troll post

[–]Musicgoon5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ugh I cringe...

You have sex that she enjoys and wants to come back for. Spin more plates and get practice.

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

More and more I started realizing that sex for. Women. Is a state of. Mind, not the orgasm

[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

All the info in a post like this just leaves me too overwhelmed and scared to attempt to go for sex and produces anxiety which stops me from getting aroused. If these are all the rules and I have zero experience and low chances at getting sex, how am I supposed to even get started. It’s way too much pressure and some of the cause for my ED.

The odd moment I end up with a girl there’s just too much information going around in my head and I don’t know what to do/where to start and end up not even being able to start at all. Any advice? Been stuck here for too many years.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its mental not physical.

[–]jizzonmypants-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck her good means fuck her hard

Now to fuck her hard first she gotta be wet

I usually fore play a little bit so I escalate to rough sex, foreplay also let me know her boundaries if it’s a new girl, all woman love to be dominated by the man they like unless they got some mental problem

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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