What kind of friends do you have in real life?

KingGerbz · 2021-01-08T05:20:55+00:00

“Smile, nod, and do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.”

I’m not answering your question directly but I’m giving you insight on what I think you’re trying to ask.

You need to master the art of blending in with the crowd. The unfortunate reality of being a redpilled man is the vast majority of people (both men and women) you interact with will not be very receptive to your philosophies.

You don’t necessarily have to be “fake.” But learn when to drop which nuggets of wisdom. Too much truth too fast will do more harm than complete silence.

Worst case scenario, simply mirror your bluepill environment and get them to reveal information about themselves. At the very least you get a better understanding of their thought process and based on this information, you know how to play your relationship with them.

ReeeeDrumpf · 2021-01-08T11:24:14+00:00

Red pill friends I hang out with and can talk openly about relationships, politics, and finances.

Blue pill friends I have to walk on egg shells. If I bring up relationships, I'm a sexist. Politics I'm a Nazi. Finances I have white previlige, I am not white, but because I went to college and invest my money I am white.

When I am with blue pills friends I never bring up these 3 topics. Learned my lesson after heated arguments. The funny part is one of them asked me for tips to help his marriage, gave him red pill material, called me a sexist. Over the next year his wife cheated on him with 7 different guys, which I warned him might happen if he doesn't change his ways.

70percentoff · 2021-01-08T06:31:53+00:00

I have make friends and bitches. No women in my life is a “friend”. My male friends are varying degrees of natural red pillers. Rule #1 is you don’t talk about red pill. My male friends number 3, my brother, a man I’ve know since college, and a more recent man I’ve know for about a year.

Iid about the women in my life. I have a couple of women in my life that I consider fiends. But they’re unfuckables. They are, for all intents and purposes, men. I don’t mix friends and fucks. At least, I try not to.

amwfhunter · 2021-01-08T07:58:10+00:00

Yes I have influenced many friends to have red pill tendencies and have made friends with many successful fairly red pilled men. I also have many close friends who are married and purple pilled. I even have blue pilled friends but I dont really get too close with them.

The more financially successful and "battle tested" the friend, the more red pill or at least red pill tendencied man they are. Most of my closest bros are highly educated multimillionaires and/ or professionals and all are divorced, never married or have interesting arrangements with their wives (rich people problems) . All of them have multiple young women in their lives.

glowing_dolphins · 2021-01-08T11:53:31+00:00

Both!

The blue ones are tragic, because it’s so hard to talk about personal stuff and take them seriously. Some very good friends, but we just can’t talk strategy or plans.

Some unintentionally red. Good lads. Talk plans with them.

I’ve no explicit Rollo-readin’, book-learnin’ outed-as-redpill friends. I don’t ever talk about it explicitly because I don’t want to deal with the “label”. Maybe some day.

Labels are bad though. I don’t want to be called red pilled or blue pilled. It’s really pinning you to a philosophical bucket.

Maybe “worldly” or “able to entertain any thought without necessarily accepting it” or “industrious” or “strategic”. Those would be compliments I would like friends to think of me.

RossGellerBot · 2021-01-08T04:42:40+00:00

whom you’ve known for

donoyonoton · 2021-01-08T14:45:15+00:00

My friend group argues a lot so usually the truth prevails lmao. It's a mix I think I'm the only one who knows about trp but some are definitely more red or blue pill than others despite us all being pretty liberal. Some shit is just so obvious to the male experience.

jjj2576 · 2021-01-08T16:01:02+00:00

I have Blue Pilled friends and I have Purple Pilled friends and I have Red Pilled friends.

Be friends with who you want, and know your mate’s value and worth. Someone being BP isn’t an immediate write-off for me as a mate, but that’s up to you.

Reasonable-Sense-377 · 2021-01-08T04:55:44+00:00

No friends atm until I move to another country.

mrbabZ · 2021-01-08T09:16:23+00:00

I live in Eastern Europe.

Most people here can make the difference between a hoe and not-a-hoe.

We dont put women on pedestals here, but the "BELIEVE WOMEN, ALL OF THEM ARE QUEENS" western simp mentality is coming steadily here also, sadly.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-01-08T12:41:19+00:00

I have both blue and red pilled friends.

What I've noticed is that the blue pilled friends are the most toxic ones. I hang out way more with my red pilled friends because we have so much more in common. With my blue pilled friends I have nothing in common anymore, except past memories.

I made a few city trips with my best friend who's red pilled. Each time we had a blast. Mainly we did things together but sometimes we did our own thing. This is something I could never do with my blue pilled friends because they don't know how to have fun by themselves.

The blue pilled friends are often toxic because they have nothing interesting going on in their lives. When I go out with my red pilled friends, they often get jealous because they weren't invited.

One of my better friends is blue pilled as fuck. I love him but he thinks I owe him everything. When I don't do something with him, he's toxic about it. I have other groups of friends. When I tell my red pilled friends I will do something else, they don't care, because they have interesting stuff to do themselves.

My blue pilled friends only want to play poker and drink alcohol. My red pilled friends love working out, have the same hobbies as me, are good with girls, have exciting shit going on, are open to try new things, ...

I doubt I'll see my blue pilled friends much, once I move to the big city.

Title	What kind of friends do you have in real life?
Author	zephenrage
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Date	January 8, 2021 4:42 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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