what makes blue pilled people still believe their way is the right way when the red pilled people in their group actively shows that its not?

SelfUnmadeMan · 2019-03-01T06:17:00+00:00

Man evolved in tandem with woman's hypergamy, and there is a successful evolutionary strategy in being the provider: sex leads to children, even if the woman is merely acquiescing to it in an obligatory, transactional fashion.

Some men play the red side, others, the blue. Which way is "right?" Each man must decide that for himself.

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-03-01T12:09:48+00:00

At the heart of every Blue Piller's world view is a desire for something that isn't true in the real world (e.g. "women are capable of selfless love for men"). These desires are strongly needed, to the point where they identify themselves by those needs (e.g. "I believe true love exists and the right woman is capable of feeling selfless love for me").

Now, whenever the universe gives them a dose of reality that disagrees with their desires, it confronts them with the possibility that their values are wrong, and therefore that their sense of self and place in the universe is wrong.

This is a terrible feeling to experience. So they block it out, deny it, and rationalize it so they can continue living with a more pleasant delusion.

You can't convince your friends to accept reality by debating with them. Instead, they must come to your side after seeing how your behaviour results in outcomes for you that they want for themselves.

lotrlotr14 · 2019-03-01T05:21:30+00:00

Because they’re followers in the societal herd.

MrAgamemnon · 2019-03-01T06:47:27+00:00

what causes BP people to think their ways are the right way?

Here's a question about "these people".

Are they leaders?

The answer is no. Those that do not lead will follow the herd. Far be it from leading others, most of the time these people cannot lead themselves.

Orfeu_da_Conceicao · 2019-03-01T12:00:56+00:00

Cognitive dissonance.

MattyAnon · 2019-03-01T17:28:29+00:00

what causes BP people to think their ways are the right way?

It's a cultural thing.

"The media says be nice to girls and marry them so this must be right and I'll continue to believe this regardless of all facts".

Look.... most men are fairly unattractive to women. The only way they can garner a little approval is to tow the line on female-primary relationships. "I'm a good little beta, please approve of me!"

Women are excellent at deluding men into believing this is the "correct" way to behave and will lead to long term male sex and happiness.

Try and do anything different and women react with scorn and derision, and they fear this. They don't stick it out long enough to realise this leads directly to sex and respect.

before anyone says ditch these guys, they are good company. just mostly brain dead with women

And you're right. You don't need your friends to be good with women.

Lambdal7 · 2019-03-01T11:53:31+00:00

Because repill is wrong just as many times as blue pill is right.

They are both very valuable and don’t work in isolation.

ChemicalGiraffe · 2019-03-01T12:26:55+00:00

what makes red pilled people still believe their way is the right way

Just live your life why are you concerned about what other men think of your lifestyle?

[deleted] · 2019-03-01T20:28:53+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qlpODYhnPEo

rugged79 · 2019-03-02T00:24:45+00:00

If an example is given of consecutive RP guys being successful in life and with women, BP always have an excuse as to why. Even if two guys grew up in the same neighborhood, had the same resources and the same experience.

Because if the day comes that they acknowledge that that guy and the BPs come from the exact same shit? They will have to acknowledge that everything they have been taught is wrong and that they don't know shit.

It's like Neo and Morpheus in the first Kung Fu battle.

But it's hard facing yourself in the mirror.

friendandadvisor · 2019-03-02T01:20:51+00:00

In addition to 'society' pouring this shit on people, I think that the main problem is a man listening to the women that fuck the RP guys.

They always say "Oh! He's such an asshole! I hate him!" about the Chads. Right after she fucked him in his car, and licked his asshole, and gave him 20 dollars for his lunch. Guys, being guys, use overt communication, i.e., speech. If a guy says "X is an asshole." He is trying to get the idea across that X is an asshole.

If a woman says "X is an asshole", she means "I love him, and want to bear his children, and he's so manly when he treats me like a whore and makes me give him ass-to-mouth." But, men hear "He is an asshole; I hate him!" which makes the bro think that the woman is soon going to be available, and she is telling him this because she is hinting at a relationship with him. Who wouldn't want to believe that?

ghjklzxcv123 · 2019-03-01T09:33:08+00:00

It is the same reason that we have religion or useless cultural behaviour that serves no one. Most of the people are unable to progress.

AwakenedSovereign · 2019-03-01T13:38:06+00:00

It is hard to fill a cup that is already full. The cup must first be emptied.. usually by eviscerating the man's ability to trust and believe in a woman's love.

Fuck his bitch. That'll do it.