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What other areas can I improve in besides weight loss that will give me even more confidence

May 18, 2019
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My bad for the long essay

I am 6'2. In January I was 288 lbs. I carried the weight decently but I was clearly fat as fuck. Lost a shit ton of weight due to keto and lifting (rarely did cardio) Fucked up the keto diet sometimes but stuff with it 80% of the time. Now I'm 245 lbs and I'm hoping to drop to around 215.

I've also improved my clothing. Went out with my friend who's a college athlete and we basically went shopping and he helped me improved my look. I honestly look way better than I have in years.

Now I've noticed my confidence increasing. I haven't really approached at all but I really feel a lot better than I did months ago. I'm eager to keep improving my life even more and make my confidence grow to where talking with women is easy as hell. I'm not shy to where I cant talk to them but escalating to show interest that I wanna fuck gets me nervous

What can I do to improve this? Is it simply just goin out and trying to fuck or should I improve other areas in my life first?

Any other advice let me know. Thanks

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Title What other areas can I improve in besides weight loss that will give me even more confidence
Author beardestbird
Upvotes 1
Comments 6
Date May 18, 2019 9:11 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]FearGarbhArMait3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fear is your brain calculating risk and stress. The only way to overcome fear is by repeated exposure to the cause of your fear. This will allow your brain to recalculate stress.

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Understood. Thanks

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The best way to get good at talking to women is to talk to women.

Everything else is secondary, but since it isn't as scary and it is '''helping" your SMV, you ego will often tell you just doing the ancillary shit means you're doing something toward your goals, and that should be enough.

It's not. This is why guys ego hamster their way into eternal monk mode.

Doing everything but the one essential hard thing that scares you.

[–]beardestbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not gonna lie it does scare the fuck out of me and it pisses me off. I dont know why. I can talk and make great conversation with people but if it's a girl I want to fuck I overthink things and eventually blow it. I want to get rid of this badly

[–]rendezvous199-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Read books you've always wanted to read.

If you don't have a list yet, start with some redpill books as it is helping me become more calm and confident.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Read books you've always wanted to read.

The correct answer. Become an authority on esoteric subjects. Your confidence will skyrocket.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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