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what should you do if you get IOIs but she's playing hard to get? I say playing like she's doing it with a smile on her face when she tries to be evasive while I try to escalate asking out

November 25, 2017
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Title what should you do if you get IOIs but she's playing hard to get? I say playing like she's doing it with a smile on her face when she tries to be evasive while I try to escalate asking out
Author Eclectiqque
Upvotes 13
Comments 8
Date November 25, 2017 10:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

My rule of thumb is I try twice and if get a flake or an evasion both times I walk. She's wasting too much time at that point and she probably doesn't have sufficient interest.

[–]kranos337 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, totally agree, the rule of "twos" is golden.

You can have a girl balk up to a date offer (wrong timing, bad mood, getting over an ex, menstrual cramps....), whatever. But if asked again few weeks later, at the right time she will go out with you and fuck your brains out. (it has happen to me).

But when she does it twice, consider it as permanent. She IS NOT INTO YOU. Move on, and don't spend a single second of thought on this girl.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She is dicking you around.

It's very easy for anyone to give out IOI's, they don't always mean what you want them to mean.

Escalate, don't care, be prepared to move on.

[–]chachaChad13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have a one strike rule. Do not let anyone manipulate you.

[–]MinaKatja1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you have a no pussy rule and inferiority complex rule lmao

goal is to fk, its his own fault he didnt have something lined up just incase a flake happens and he would be the one cancelling/flaking, in that scenario "NO time would be wasted" and no manipulation occurs (by her)

[–]LordThunderbolt4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No chasing, just nexting if she is playing hard to get

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No "rules of two" if you get flaked on once she gets nexted.

[–]Ozymanberg0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This kind of unconventional by RP standards but I say have fun with it. I actually like when a girl tries to act as if she's not interested, it's an IOI in itself.

However, sometimes too much games is too much. You need your own boundary of what too gamey is. Mine is pretty high but it's because I know that if a girl plays like that it's just flirting/foreplay. Be cocky and stoic and you'll be fine.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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