So this year has done a number on all opportunities (gym/meeting hotties)

what piece of information would you wish you knew years ago and followed to this day?

mine would be spend more time developing relationships with men, on a personal level i got sucked out of male groups in the past and it completely tanked my self esteem.

in short, your relationships with men are probably way more important than some smelly fuckhole who would ditch your ass if you ever end up in hardship.

tldr

what have you learned that you wish you knew earlier?