I have searched the forums but surprisingly haven't found any advice on this which is weird considering how common abuse is. Basically my wife was abused by at a young age and this has given her a low sex drive which she admits. 7 years marriage and its gotten somewhat better, she used to actively dread sex. I'm working on lifts, sidebar, DARE not DEER, etc. I've been a Beta my whole life and I am working towards Alpha. But basically I'm not sure how she's going to react to the typical power/aggressive sex that TRP so commonly advocates. Any others with experience or tips?

Edit: yes I knew this before marrying her