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What to make of/how to respond to text, "For real if you want me, you are doing a bad job of showing it"

May 31, 2015
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Not sure if I should flip back around and say "Don't say things like that about yourself" or something of the like. Possibly even repeating it right back to her

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Title What to make of/how to respond to text, "For real if you want me, you are doing a bad job of showing it"
Author David35207
Upvotes 2
Comments 11
Date May 31, 2015 1:04 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

So, do you want her? And why is she saying this? What's your status/history with her?

If you want her I'd just be like "so what's up then, you want to hang out?" (i.e. fuck). Unless there's some reason you don't want to.

[–]David352070 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

history is one date k close last saturday. She is saying it because I don't respond fast enough to her texts. I just ended up not responding

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like you're doing good to me. But don't wait too long to go out with her again if that was as far as you got. So... do you want to see her again? Clearly she's interested if she's texting you

[–]imgonnabethegreatest2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's good. When a woman says that, it just means she wants your attention. When you're taking a long time to reply(or if you ignore her) you're depriving her of your attention which makes her want it, and you, more.

Keep it up man, sounds like you're doing well.

[–]1RPSigmaStigma1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Text her something completely random and unrelated. Like a picture of puppies or something. I usually send a link to this video. (Don't necessarily send that link, it has to be something congruent with your personality and the frame you set early in the interaction.)

[–]GhostRiderkempff0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

"I know. Now make me a sandwich."

[–]David352070 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Truthfully or are you just pulling my leg?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, what you are suggesting sounds childish and entering her frame. However the easiest answer is always agree and amplify. The "I know." is solid (agree), the following is up to personal taste. "I was thinking of checking out Tinder." (Amplify) Obviously, your perceived SMV is important. Also, people here will remind you to keep texting only for logistics. So you could just straight out ignore her. Period.

[–][deleted] 0 points0 points | Copy Link

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[–]Johnny10toes0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What's your number?

[–]favours_of_the_moon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

666

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