A girl and I have been seeing each other for 4 months and occasionally have sex here in there. She’s been into me for months and I feel like she’s been chasing me, while I’ve been staying busy and just making time for her whenever I could.

Lately for the holidays we’ve spent a total of 8 days together in two weeks (Christmas holidays and New Years holidays.)

For the first four days, we had a blast and she missed me completely. The next four days after a week didn’t go that well. I showed her too much emotional weakness and validated her too much. I told her I’ll miss her because I’ll be busy this year and can barely see her, and we both cried. I couldn’t have as much fun on the last day with her because I was too sad to part ways with her, hence our last day together was a bit flat.

I feel like I’m a bit distant from her and afraid that she might have lost some attraction and excitement from spending too much time with me.

Is there a way to recover attraction from this? And also to make her miss me again? Do I just pull away? Is all hope gone now?