When asking for a sexy pic, appropriate response regardless of what you think?

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-05-30T19:29:09+00:00

For example, what if she sends a relatively 'safe' pic, maybe just trying to show some cleavage or something, but its not really too much of a "sexy" pic. I feel like the beta response is to accept what she sends and give her validation. But if I am not happy enough with what she sends, maybe follow it with "who are you sending these too, your sister? Turn your husband on!" Obviously don't want to be too harsh and scare her away from doing it again.

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-05-30T23:53:29+00:00

Well shit, it might not matter. No pic yet..and about to leave work. That was basically the purpose..to get a sexy pic while I was at work, not almost home. How should I respond? Don't respond? Don't even bring it up? What if she sends it right when I get home? Just tell her the purpose was for when i was at work?

SkorchZang · 2014-05-31T06:31:54+00:00

The very fact that you're doing it is massive, man. Pat yourself on the back, running a tight ship there. It's like they say around these parts, if you're not giving your woman attention and sexy validation, some other guy is, guaranteed.

Your answer to her "objection" is also spot on. Spontaneous and fun.

"who are you sending these too, your sister? Turn your husband on!"

That's a little too long and too demanding / needy. Though it's not bad, if it's cogruent to what you usually say dude! Me, I would try something more like:

"aw so sweet"

"k now the real pic (sweaty pls)"

Other responses you can try:

"I see what you did there...", when she asks what it is, you can say

"Just gave me an epic hard on with your pixels baby"

The general idea is to make her work and/or wait if only just a little bit, before you give that sweet release, the compliment she worked for and deserves.

Nothing wrong with "oh god you're so fuckin sexy", either. Just don't over-do it, where it gets repetetive. Ask yourself, is she expecting you'll say that? If yes, say something she doesn't expect, that's even sweeter and will make her smile just as big.

Go at it from all different angles, from deliberately short like "goddess", followed by silence... to little flirtatious convos, to walls of text describing EXACTLY what you want to do to that sweet little pussy and how it will feel (for you) to do it to her. Mixing it up is the key, that way it never gets old, she can't get enough of the "fun game" because you never know what that guy will come up with next!

Title	When asking for a sexy pic, appropriate response regardless of what you think?
Author	pleasedontknowme30
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	May 30, 2014 7:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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