When to end LTR?

November 19, 2019
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I plan on ending LTR soon. There’s a couple of things holding me back from doing it right now. One is, her bday is coming up next week. Right after her bday, we’re going on a trip with her, her sis and sis’ bf for almost a week. Her sis and sis’ bf are cool people.

I’m thinking it would be horrible timing to end things now, thereby ruining the trip plans (which money is involved for flight arrangements / free staying at my condo) and unnecessarily breaking up with her on her bday.

What do y’all think? How long after should I wait? Open to suggestions.

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Title When to end LTR?
Author KillaJewels
Upvotes 1
Comments 13
Date November 19, 2019 3:08 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Radkin00912 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You are being too nice. If you want to end the LTR then end it now. It’s like a bandaid and the longer you wait to pull it off the more it festers.

[–]alexanderthegroovy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This. It's important to realize there is NEVER a good time to break up with someone: Her dog just died, my parents are in town, she's on her period etc.

You have to ask yourself would you prefer comfort or relief?

[–]bigmaddenguy4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The sooner the better. I had a friend tell me he wanted to break up with his LTR our sophmore year of college. And our junior year of college. He broke up with her mid-way through our senior year. He now regrets having lost out on a lot of his college experience. Pull the trigger ASAP and don't put it off for "insert reason here"

[–]serynada2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

realize this: whenever you end it, you will be the bad guy. don’t apologize for your desires. you want to end it. so do it. you can decide whether going on the trip will be a net positive for you. if it’s a net negative, then end it right now. don’t bullshit yourself here. know there’s never a right time. it won’t be easy. good luck.

[–]johnnydanconia451 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I can understand your concern for the timing.

What is the reason for the breakup? Is it just not fun anymore? Is there some crazy shit going on?

[–]KillaJewels1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

For one, she’s been trying to start fights with me for awhile now and I’m tired of it. She’s been unusually emotional, and many factors come into play here. Her mom passed away last year, she’s in college taking 18 credit hrs this semester, she’s been having issues with acne breakouts which she has been struggling to treat since June, she’s in a foreign country and her immigration status, along with her family’s, is a looming issue. The sex has been good and every time we see each other, so that doesn’t seem to be the issue.

For another, there are certain dealbreakers that she’s struggling to maintain. For example, her hair hygiene. There are times she doesn’t shave her legs, armpits and pussy. Not to the extent of full bush, but enough to bother me and say something about it. I shouldn’t have to.

She’s also lower SMV, about a 6. But to mention the positives, she’s an awesome girl. Super appreciative, great family, great support system, submissive and really values me. This is why I LTR’d her. Super rare find imo.

No matter the outcome, I truly wish her all the best. She’s a great person and will be an excellent partner to anyone she ends up being with, but that person isn’t me.

I’ve applied way too much dread on her lately, and my gut tells me she senses that I am prob gonna break up with her soon so it feels like she’s ready to branch swing.

[–]Aokp1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Quit the unicorn dreaming she is not unique and rare every girl i plated would do more then any gf would do

[–]volvostupidshit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Especially if they knew that you have way higher smv than her.

[–]BluffButt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sooner the better. Once you start to push it further, you’ll find more reasons to push it off. And then resentment comes in. Now you’re just stuck in a weird relationship where you lie everyday and end up hating yourself

Source: me; I do that (:

[–]Pimpcool4201 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah just do it right after. One of the most fun nights I've had at a club was my ex's birthday and hanging with her sister+br. Did the breakup part in the morning and moved on with my life.

[–]ElegantCyclist0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Today.

[–]Blackhawk24791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking now.

[–]Red_Pill_Brotherhood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

End it now.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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