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Where can I learn amused mastery?

June 10, 2021

I’ve always been good with roasting guys and being funny with men and woman but I’ve learned that for lighter confrontations like shit-tests, an ‘amused mastery’ is the best way to combat them instead of going nuclear. To learn this, are there any videos or comedians, podcasts or other resources to listen to, read, or watch? Thanks

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Title Where can I learn amused mastery?
Author spliferoooo
Upvotes 1
Comments 17
Date June 10, 2021 10:45 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]ObjectiveDay8 8 points9 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Try naturally not giving a fuck. It’s the best way.

[–]spliferoooo[S] 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

Then all I would be doing is ignoring. Sometimes there’s times that require you to speak out and times to not gaf and zone out

[–]ObjectiveDay8 2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

It’s not about zoning out, it’s just about not letting it faze you. If someone has a legitimate concern and brings something to my attention and acts like a reasonable adult, then that’s a different story, but someone pulling a childish bitchy act gets none of my mental energy except for a laugh

[–]spliferoooo[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

What if that bitchy person is insulting you and the crowd is prompting you for a response but you don’t wanna get too personal? What if it’s a broad shit testing you and you want to lightly ‘put her in her place’? It’s just if it’s someone you just don’t want to go too far insulting and can’t just laugh it off at that given time. I see what you mean and there’s not much real insecurities people could point out about me so it’s never serious but I need an equally serious way to combat it. But I’m accepting to have my mind changed

[–]ObjectiveDay8 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

It’s all about social standing. You need to constantly be building it. So that by the time you get to the party or the club you already have the respect of those around you. Get that however you can. Example, if everyone else except for the likely drunk chick who is being a butthole knows that you are a black belt in BJJ (just an example, you could also insert CEO of startup, doctor, whatever), then the people surrounding you will most likely be thinking “that bitch doesn’t know she’s talking to” instead of “haha he’s getting punked”

[–]spliferoooo[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Damn, I didn’t think about it like that… perhaps my desire to upgrade my comeback game was from me wanting to be able to ‘prove myself’ socially. But you’re right, if I worked on improving my status more then I wouldn’t be in those positions most the time.

For some background, I’m asking these questions because I’m off to college soon, and building social skill is important to me there. Are there any things to recommend that build a social status there at that age? What do you recommend?

[–]ObjectiveDay8 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

At your age the quickest way is martial arts, it’s not that expensive when you compare cost benefits. It will literally transform you physically and mentally.

[–]spliferoooo[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

A hundred percent, I’m literally ready to throw my money at it as soon as possible, but Canada’s got it shut down for now. Guess grill patios and liquor stores are more important for public health.

[–]ObjectiveDay8 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

That sucks man, I think outdoor gyms are opening up in California. I don’t know about Canada though but here in Cali a lot of gyms just don’t give a fuck and are defying the lockdowns

[–]spliferoooo[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man we had that too, but it depends on the countries people more than ever. Americans are like that, and their governors sympathize with them and allow them some freedoms. Canadians are not, and will accept government dominance easily even shaming others for not. Slowly america is starting to become that way too though, I hope this pandemic serves as a sort of cultural reset.

[–]Low_Acanthisitta_784 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's almost like there's a post about this in the side bar.

[–]BajaGhia 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No way. The sidebar?

What the fuck you talkin bout, Willis?

[–]bordstol 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You learn it out in the real world my dude. You already know what it is, there is no need to read more about it.

[–]ClickKlakk 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude. When you see someone do something stupid that you expect because you’ve been down that road, you chuckle and don’t have other emotions. Like the difference between a child’s reaction the 1st time someone goes “I got your nose!” and the 30th.

Just learn about shit tests (why, how, where, when, who) and then you’ll chuckle when you recognize them. That’s it.

[–]58cmoftruth 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Amused mastery should came by itself once you reach some threshold of maturity and experience with woman. Probably there is no way to fake it.

[–]BajaGhia 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Amused mastery is a branch off the tree of wisdom. In it you are basically conveying that you know something they dont know, and that its kind of funny that they don't know this.

The beauty of it is that it has nothing to do with whatever the subject is that she is shit testing you about and everything to do with the fact that you recognize its a shit test and can operate from that level.

Imagine getting in a blindfolded pillow fight in front of a group of people and she is a world champion. She can totally beat your ass. Now take your blindfold off, but dont hit her with your pillow, just watch her flail around and laugh at her. Thats what amused mastery gives you.

My favorite is the half smirk, kind of holding it in, tickled funny bone that "i know something you don't know" expression and then simply saying.

"Oh my, how...Shakespearian." and then shut up.

Or "einstein was right"

Or, "you know, i read about this"

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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