Why all the advice to avoid BPDs (borderline personalities)?

_-resonance-_ · 2019-06-09T23:55:28+00:00

Jealous exes and "guy friends" gunning for you. Chances are some of these will be criminals and not your run-of-the-mill beta orbiters.
They like to make false accusations to get revenge or because they're so worked up they lose track of reality.
Some will go all Fatal Attraction and stalk you if you disengage first. This is why some have recommended acting beta on purpose to scare them off.
She might decide she wants a baby. I know guys talk about bringing the used condoms with them or putting Tabasco sauce in them but I feel like that level of distrust and paranoia would negate the fun of getting laid.
They are human beings in spite of all the havoc they can cause. In a couple hundred years psychology students will look back in horror at how we gave them drugs that often made them worse and used them(in the porn industry, etc). You don't want to be that one in a hundred guy whose Cluster B fling actually did follow through on a suicide threat.

[deleted] · 2019-06-10T01:58:00+00:00

Because they're hot and passionate. and that causes you to lose perspective. When you date one will be the most amazing person on the planet, she will do that weird freaky shit, she will bring joy and love into your life. There is no regulation to their emotions.

And then when you break up, or she finds something she doesn't like or imagines about you, she will destroy you with the same passion.

GGrub8 · 2019-06-10T06:08:19+00:00

One big reason to avoid them like the plague is they have unprotected sex with multiple partners, way more than your average slut (at least common sluts usually don't start fucking raw 1 month into the relationship), and as a result they have a much higher chance to carry STDs up to untreated (which means contagious) HIV.

Always be wary of a girl who wants to experience unprotected sex too early in a relationship.

barn3r · 2019-06-10T00:30:42+00:00

Very high probability they will try and fuck up your life if things aren’t going their way.

False rape accusations, domestic violence accusations, get knocked up intentionally whether by you or another dude to latch you in, etc.

Rkingpin · 2019-06-10T02:52:45+00:00

This is one thing I wouldn't try to hamster my way into

These girls will be needy and draining for your soul. Why invite that kinda shit into your life man

IvyExcess · 2019-06-10T04:35:22+00:00

My BPD ex who I did consensual non-consent play with, hit me with a false rape accusation that threatened my career and livelihood after we hadn't spoken in 6 months. She also cheated on her new bf with me after we broke up. Then hit me with the accusation after 6 months of no contact. Worth it? Fucks to the nah

LouReedsSunglasses · 2019-06-10T04:38:44+00:00

Jesus Christ, you might as well ask why you don't stick your dick in a blender. DON'T date a chick with BPD.

KeyRepresentative · 2019-06-29T06:11:11+00:00

If you’re trying to become a better man and access better women, stay away from BPD or any other cluster B personality traits.

You are playing a game that you cannot win. They distort reality to fit their needs in order to survive because they are fragile.

Sex is great, they are usually compelling, interesting, and at least one study showed they are genuinely more physically attractive.

But yours will, like mine did, find ways to smash the things you’ve accomplished for yourself, pull up any inner feelings of shame, shit inside you and leave. And they will have someone new very quickly.

Therapists can’t even treat them most of the time, but they put a lot of men in therapy.

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-06-09T22:57:27+00:00

isn’t engaging with a borderline the ultimate way to develop game

It might be. For ONE person. How I've honed my game however was fucking LOTS OF PEOPLE. Then as new ones come along; I have a broader frame of reference to draw upon to ensure success.

DGAF attitude

It's internal. I acquired my DGAF attitude through being beaten into discipline as a boy. Plating or dating wimmin with BPD's, or any womyn for that matter is nothing to me. It doesn't really matter where you acquire the tools; just how well you can use them.

Why stick your dick in crazy when there are at least a BILLION other options out there? If your game's tight you don't have to.

Godspeed and good luck!

ShotgunTRP · 2019-06-10T01:27:54+00:00

They're amazing plates if your game is TIGHT, but the majority of spergers here isnt so better safe than sorry.

_-resonance-_ · 2019-06-10T03:02:03+00:00

Well fuck, like my friend The Beast said (r.i.p. cous), “that’s my problem... I like the crazy ones.”

All my other plates just seem boring or easy. Is the solution just “more plates?” Do you guys recommend starting from scratch and seeking higher SMV plates, or returning to the harem I have in place? Another part of me is saying just focus on mission/purpose for a while, and forget everyone, but that’s hard to do when my old plates and a new one or two are hitting me up.

hmsthinkingmeat · 2019-06-10T17:58:11+00:00

Doesn't matter how "tight a Bro's game is" when he's lying in bed with an 8 inch carving knife sticking out of his head.

Lucretia123 · 2019-06-10T04:26:10+00:00

I had a girlfriend with BPD, she told everyone that her ex anally raped her, causing their son to be still born.

Mind you, the ex was her husband's best friend.

When he returned to Australia, she started stalking him.

She also told people that she had to go to court because a guy hit her in the face. And that he would go to gaol a he was on a good behavior bond.

I know this didn't happen. I was their when the fight started and I knew they guy (his ex snuck up on him and punched him in the head). I was him come over and grabbed both his wrists and told him "don't, it's not worth it". I saw him leave. I checked a the local police and court houses. Nothing.

She was showing people fake legal documents FFS.

She totally defamed these two guys.

And a third guy, I just can't be bothered with the shit she put him through.

I ended the friendship real quick.

DeborahBinLaden · 2019-06-09T22:22:34+00:00

Yeah. Why not? So long as you can handle it. However, dem bitches be crazy and could potentially be a risk to your life

Distractingyou · 2019-06-09T22:58:00+00:00

I would just avoid giving your direction and i would use a Fake name with them

[deleted] · 2019-06-10T01:13:07+00:00

Seek them out, fuck them and fuck with their heads.

What could go wrong?

Title	Why all the advice to avoid BPDs (borderline personalities)?
Author	_-resonance-_
Upvotes	5
Comments	23
Date	June 9, 2019 10:17 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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