Why do hot chicks tease you by suggesting to pair you up with a fat/ugly girl?

May 18, 2020
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This is a shit test and you do what you do with generally all shit tests, but why do chicks do this?

I have a girl right now who jokingly mentions that me and a fat girl with SMV far lower than mine should 'pair up' or that she wants to 'set me up' with her. Also made remarks about how the fat girl would love to suck my dick.

What would be her rationale behind this or in general terms, when a girl you like does this, what are her hamsters thinking and how do you ace the situation?

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Title Why do hot chicks tease you by suggesting to pair you up with a fat/ugly girl?
Author suddenlyChad
Upvotes 133
Comments 104
Date May 18, 2020 3:41 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]TRP_Scepter262 points263 points  (49 children) | Copy Link

It's a pretty easy shit test. If you get all bitchy and go "ew no, what the fuck?" That's what they want. Her rationale doesn't matter, she just wants to see if your frame is good enough.

Just agree and amplify as usual. "Fuck yeah set me up with her, I bet she gives better head than you." That or "How'd you know I like extra meat on my bones?" Etc etc.

[–]QueenSlapFight107 points108 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

"Yeah fat girls give the best head. They can suck the meat off a chicken bone."

[–]phellySL37 points38 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

This is shamefully true..

[–]TacoMedic70 points71 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Not even shamefully tbh. Assuming she’s actually just fat, not obese, then she’s likely better at everything. A lot of the time hot girls know they’re hot so try less in bed. But 6s and 7s generally hang out with 8s and 9s and have to try a lot harder to be noticed. Obviously YMMV, but I’ve found that girls with only 10-15lbs extra meat are generally better in bed than the average hot chick.

Obese is another thing entirely and no king should be degrading himself like that

[–]phellySL26 points27 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

This is fucking facts. I’m just saying it’s a shame that hotter girls aren’t as good in bed. It would be the stuff of legends. Alas, tis but a fantasy.

[–]L2diy46 points47 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

The best are girls that didn’t used to be hot but grew into being hot. They have the benefit of being humbled early on, and they’re still sexy. Those are hard to come by, but when they come around it’s great.

[–]ramaga22 points23 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I dated a former fat girl who, though hard work and dedication, transformed herself into a hot chick. I met her when she was smoking hot; I didn't even even know she used to be fat until I saw pictures of what she used to look like.

Actually, "fat" is an understatement. She had been obese, bordering on morbidly so. I wouldn't have believed it had I not seen the pictures with my own eyes. She had become a totally different person through rigorous diet and exercise.

She was the best of both worlds: hotter than the surface of the sun, but with the fully developed personality and brains of a woman who wasn't accustomed to coasting through life on her looks. It was fun while it lasted. She wanted to get married and I didn't, so we broke up.

It's just as well. She got fat again. I ran across her again years later and almost didn't recognize her.

[–]RanaMahal10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

that’s the problem with fat girls. they always go back lol.

my buddy has been dating a former braceface / acne girl. she’s easily a 9. absolute knockout but is very funny, sociable and great personality. best part is she won’t regress back to being fat cuz she never was

[–]ramaga1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. I've never seen a former fat girl stay former forever.

[–]Ill_mumble_that0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Once you go fat you always go back

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

that’s the problem with fat girls. they always go back lol.

Probably most of the time. My LTR has kept weight she lost while she was my plate off her for 4 years though, with no signs of backsliding. I think it depends on their experience with it. For my LTR, she knows the world she experiences today would crumble under her if she returned to her former weight (lol). And her life as a very hot girl is so nice that, based on what she says / how she acts, I feel like getting fat scares her enough that she's very vigilant about not letting it happen.

[–]RanaMahal0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

until she gets comfortable. it’s not a 100% but i’ve yet to see otherwise tbh

[–]flyinghorse14 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wasnt there any signs on the body of loose skin. My ex lost about 60 pounds before i met her and her skin was a little loose and boobs were not firm.

[–]ramaga1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You'd think so, but no. When I asked about it once I realized how big she once was, she said she lost the weight gradually, so her skin shrank with the rest of her. The fact she was young (early 20s at the time) probably helped.

[–]ogkushinjapan4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Many former fatties turn to huge hoes coz they got too much attention in a sudden. Girls who post transformation pics are the easiest targets man.

[–]phellySL9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Big facts

[–]TheGirlGetter90001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is my LTR. I met her when I was kind of Beta and just getting into RP stuff. Got really into the gym myself. Got her invested in it too. She had a low notch at the time, though mostly because she didn't get much attention from attractive men as a HB5. Four years later she's lost all the fat and revealed beautiful genetics underneath, and she's sculpted a great ass since then too. HB8 or so now.

She has almost zero of the issues men attribute to most hot women. She's great in bed and eager to please. Low ego. Very invested. Etc, etc. Women who have to work to become very high SMV have a level of character women who have a high SMV by birth right don't--on some level, I feel like it's because women who work for a high SMV relate to the path of men much better. They had to do what pretty much every attractive man does at some point, and they were willing to and did.

[–]ihateyouguys6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothin’ like a hard working 7, gentlemen.

[–]MyLongAssUsername1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It really depends on your style of fucking, i am very dominant and never had a girl be „bad“ i just manhandle them. Pinning em down and chokefucking.

But i have to admit if a girl can ride, deepthroat and throw her ass back while fucking, i‘m done quick af. But that‘s teachable in Two or three sessions.

[–]ihateyouguys1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol don’t believe the downvotes boys, this man speaks truth.

[–]rando123lian205 points206 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I bet she gives better head than you" Lmfao love that answer man!

[–]Casanova-Quinn24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you get all bitchy and go "ew no, what the fuck?" That's what they want.

Agreed. You can however say "no" by using disagree & amplify.

"Nah my boat and harpoon aren't ready for that one."

[–]TacoMedic5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm fucking dying.

[–]DrunkOldBear3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And I thought I had a great answer... Like 'ah, perv! You wanna watch!'

[–]Sonny_Luna11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I disagree completely. I think they want you to demonstrate standards and that you have value. They want to confirm that you’re too good for the fuglies. If you act like you’re into a fugly you’ve done the opposite of preselection. You’ve demonstrated to the hotter chick that you don’t think you’re good enough for her. That you’ll take anything you can get. Also, they want to talk about you in a dating/romance context because they’re attracted to you. When women are attracted to you they want to talk about those topics with you.

One of the best pieces of advice I ever got about women was that when women bring up the topic of sex with you it’s because they associate you and sex to whatever extent. So when you find yourself in that scenario it’s a good idea to explore/probe into it; see what happens.

Furthermore, I find that the default advice around here is to reply to everything a woman says with a super-corny, sarcastic comment. I don’t think that’s a great idea. It’s disingenuous a lot of the time. It’s meant to make women think you emotionally resilient but that can backfire often as women can sniff out that shit in men easily. The better approach is to do the actual hard work of internalizing the fact that women are no big deal and nothing to fear.

Have a real personality. Don’t hide behind preloaded, corny lines. That’s weakness.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't listen to this guy, such a long winded post that says nothing.

The original joke is perfect because it does still keep the conversation sexual, you are literally talking about her sucking your dick.

[–]Sonny_Luna0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your post belies a lack of understanding of women. I’m sure you’ve read a lot of posts on TRP but you don’t seem to have actual experience.

[–]Frebaz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

well, it depends. older women or non western girl? then yes you’re right. Western young girls? nop and they are right. Most of the folks here are from the western society, specially the successful ones. Also the advise depends from the looks of the person. Sometimes it doesn’t matter what you say: yes, no or whatever as long as it’s said in attitude and without flinching

[–]robot3000_01-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The first comeback is fine, but it's not a shit test.

It's an outright confirmation of your low SMV and you shouldn't be in the situation in the first place.

[–]TheGirlGetter9000162 points163 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Pass the shit test by fucking her fat friend

[–]7inchnofapper41 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Now this is the right answer

[–]thiikn0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Sure, fuck her fat friend and ruin your chances with her.

Once you go for the worst, you've set yourself to her level (in the eyes of her friends)

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This was a joke

Obviously it's a stupid idea to fuck the fat friend (unless you want to). My real response to this situation would just be to ignore it and continue pursuing the girl I originally wanted without any big deal being made of this, nothing overt

[–]alphakari-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah this isn't true. Girls are competitive, and lack any sort of scruples about competing with people below them. (In fact its the only people they compete with.)

The thing that holds her back isn't that she thinks you're at the level of the fatty. It's that she might be worried about the social blow back from betraying her fatty friend.

[–]TheGirlGetter90001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Def not. My post was a joke. An 8 isn't trying to get sloppy seconds from a 3.

Caveat, though: girls will compete with girls similar to their level. An 8 may feel competition from a 7 or 6. But a hot chick and a fat girl just aren't in the same league entirely.

[–]thesoloronin0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So that means you’ll take whatever that comes your way and you have no standards?

[–]TheGirlGetter90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, it means you can't interpret a joke

[–]morpheus77777126 points127 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

They're trying to manipulate you into admitting, "No, you're hotter than her, and I want to fuck you not anybody else".
She's trying to make you declare that she is the prize, and she's trying to get that validation from you.
Once she knows that she is the prize, the ball is then in her court.

[–]LegendarySuperSalsa20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Exactly that never admit shes your prize because that spells game over with no continue option. Cannot tell you how much I wish I had this knowledge when i was in my teens and early 20’s.

[–]rad_dynamic3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This just came naturally to me but other parts of TRP did not. I find LTRs easy to manage and even plates but when ur in the ONS stage its very difficult for me.

[–]DerpJungler12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah this screams either validation seeking, or just not interested.

Sounds more like validation seeking, she wants you to say "Nooo, but shes not as hot as you!" or something like that. And if you say it, you will sound like a faggot and her pussy will dry up.

Just another ordinary and completely irrational shit test.

[–]Think4Yoself0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly this. I think if she's fishing for compliments the best thing to do is drop a subtle neg.

Look at fatty. Look back to her. Look back at fatty. Look back to her. "Nah, you're a little bit prettier."

[–]69swagman37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Yeah maybe I should. Fat bitches usually a better lay anyway”

[–]Relaxredditrockstar40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She won’t be laughing when her friend finally sucks your dick

[–]Siyuen_Tea32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Her rationale

Don't logic women or you'll be driven to insanity

[–]VasiliyZaitzev46 points47 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

She's beta-testing you to see if you're a quitter.

Also made remarks about how the fat girl would love to suck my dick.

Sometimes fat girls try to make up for being fat by giving amazing head. Or so I'm told. Your Uncle Vaz has a "No Fat Chix" policy and you should also.

[–]RanaMahal4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

10-15 lbs. on her and she sucks some mean dick. anything higher and i’m gone

[–]suddenlyChad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Amen

[–]SvenAtLarge26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Same reason they'll laugh and call you an asshole if you point out the spergiest guys around and tell her he's a perfect match for her cause she's a dork.

[–]_-resonance-_5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most underrated comment.

[–]cracksniffer66611 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think its subconscious and it's just their biology to try to control things, maintain order, etc.

Even though I've known this about women, I've been STILL struggling with it. Women will be the first to let you know if your grass is too high, your bathroom isn't clean enough, or if you're single.

I almost feel bad for them

[–]Lalocal4life7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's not teasing. Women who are interested in you will NEVER even consider mentioning or joking that you interact with another woman. Not unless they have a label on your relationship.

[–]Myagooshki40042 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well the woman could be self sabotaging

[–]I_Donald_Trump3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’ve seen it from crazy bitches.

[–]RedSkeller4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are constant posts here every few days along the lines of "why are guys banging these fat chicks" and no one can ever figure out why. Read the comments on this post and you'll have your answer.

[–]TheTastelessBatman11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Pass the shit test by fucking her fat brother.

[–]YouMotherFuclcer4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pass the shit test by fucking her fat mother.

[–]TheTastelessBatman7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Username checks out. Hear hear. 🍻

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She knows that her friend is beater than your toilet bowl the day after Thanksgiving. With that being said, bitches do this because they know you'll get offended by it and want to hear something funny. Stay witty, fun, and level-headed. Give one of the following response:

  1. "Fuck yeah, it gets chilly at night."
  2. "No, I just want some head. Not my dick eaten"
  3. "I'm just looking for one person. Not two."

[–]hockeyaddict873 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I failed this shit in my blue pilled highschool days and said “no I’m not going anywhere with a fatass” lmao

[–]KidBrody778 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is NOT a shit test. We always want to think everything a woman does that we don't like must be a shit test. It's not. She's not testing you to see if you're high value. She's telling you she has already determined you are low value. You obviously botched the abundance mentality and social proof aspect with this girl. She is telling you she thinks you...

  1. Need to be set up
  2. Lack an abundance of sexual options
  3. Are not a sexual prospect for her, but maybe her friend

A woman who views you as a viable sexual prospect is not going to try to set you up with another female. Every. Under any circumstance. The entire foundation of female hypergamy is ALL of the women are fighting to sleep with a TINY handful of high value men. If she views you as one of these men, she's already views you in her head as having to fight all these other women to get the opportunity to sleep with you. She's not going to help you sleep with other women, either in reality or as a test. And the best social proof you can provide that you are one of these men is by her knowing about you sleeping with a lot of women and her seeing you have a a lot of women who want you.

When it comes to hooking up with her friends, fat or otherwise, a REAL shit test would look something like this.....

"No way would I set you up with my friend....you're a male whore! You'd probably give her an STD!"

You want women to call you a "male whore" and a "player" and a "man slut" or that you're dick is probably going to fall off from all the sluts you've fucked.....those are actual shit tests given when a woman who views you as a sexual prospect is confronted with your social proof.

[–]nsfyou20 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Got it. But given a situation like this, how do you cone out on top, and avoid defeat?

[–]KidBrody771 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

When it comes to qualifying men as sexual prospects or not, women do it almost immediately in the first interaction or two she has with you, and once she's disqualified it's basically impossible to get her to change her mind. Remember, 90% of the men she meets she disqualifies as potential sexual partners. Is she really going to take the time to go back and re-evaluate any of these men she's disqualified to see if maybe she made a mistake? Of course not. Once she's disqualified you it's game over. She might dangle a sexual carrot in front of you once in a while to keep you in beta orbiter land but it's a carrot she never actually intends on letting you have.

At this point you have nothing to lose. Might as well shoot your shot with her and see what happens. Ask her out on a date or make a move on her. My guess is when you do she'll try to friendzone you but you never know. Like I said at this point you have nothing to lose. If she does just chalk it up to a lesson learned and next time make sure you're establishing abundance and social proof from the very first interaction.

[–]comu_nacho4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's like a jacked up guy saying to a girl that she should bang the skinny frail guy. It puts her in a better light (or a higher ground, if you like revenge of the Sith). That may indicate attraction to you, or it's just a call to get validation. Either way, it's not about you.

[–]Chadster1131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

More cushion for the pushin

[–]cydestiny1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What are you hamstering around on this?

That's the exact purpose she (or the whole female imperative) wants to achieve, break down your reality (in this case downscale your SMV), so that you can play by her rules (work harder to get her since now she's more appealing than the Fat girl in this reality). Whether she already sees you as a low value or not, it is out of context since either way, she will still do this.

The best way to deal with this situation is to not break her reality but lead her to your reality, a.k.a GAME.

[–]Purplegetraenk3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ask her if her mom is a fat fuck

[–]jchrist980 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They find you unattractive. That's why.

[–]Greaterbird0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they're shallow and insecure?

[–]Velebit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Evolutionarily, she is trying to ensure the maximum reproductive activity of her group lets say.

[–]ovrload0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cope you’re not attractive to her. She wouldn’t do that to chad

[–]Myagooshki40040 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"No I do not generally like fat women. Some of them are hot though."

[–]shyrix0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

prol just her duff that wants to get with you. threesome it up

[–]warthundersfw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It could be a shit test, or, and this might actually be more common they actually have a low opinion of you. I’ve had girl friends try to set me up with nasties, others with their hottest of friends

[–]wyota0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If she's this sociopathic, just stay the fuck away. Bleed these women dry.

[–]ViolentInteger-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Have you ever heard of a "shit test"?

Side-bar.

[–]strongerthandeath97-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I onced liked one girl and teased her to go on a date with one fat guy.If you asked me why I couldnt explain you,maybe I was afraid to ask her on a date and projecting my desires in a way that my emotions wont be hurt.I was 14 years old when i did that,and It was just once,but for someone that is older than 18 to do that I find retarded.

[–]BajaGhia-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I fucked her when she was hot. But she couldn't get over me and really let herself go. If only she had been better in bed...sigh.

You triple g? Cuz this ain't gonna work otherwise.

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