Why Do So Many Average Women Have Such a Comically Overvalued Sense of Ego?

IntrepidLawyer · 2020-10-31T18:59:42+00:00

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VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-10-31T19:01:22+00:00

There are two fundamental reasons:

A. Ego preservation. A man can be valued by women for good-looking or successful or funny or talented or such; for women it comes down to her physical SMV. That's what they've got, and if they don't have it, they in trouble.

B. The Rise of the Simp. This is a more modern phenomenon, but any avg ho with an insta had hundreds if not thousands of simps telling her how AMAZING she is, blah, blah. Betas gonna beta.

mysisterlikesmycock · 2020-10-31T19:28:59+00:00

There were two fat chicks sitting behind my group at the bar yesterday. They kept glancing at guys around the bar but obviously, no one was going to approach them. One got fed up and pulled out her phone and started talking about her 50+ tinder matches and they both were rating them and saying the most hypocritical shit about their looks.

Ugly women are able to get much more validation through social media that was non existent in the past, and they always have it as an option to rely on rather than improving their own looks or personality.

Rev_Irreverent · 2020-10-31T21:15:18+00:00

I have a theory: 5s and 6s have exceptionally inflated egos because the average man feels intimidated by real beauty and isn't attracted by uglies. So, the mediocre women end up receiving more attention.

dark_rabbit · 2020-10-31T21:59:26+00:00

Because good looking guys will happily fuck average women, so it makes them feel like they can dictate higher SMV guys. This is the premise of the Red Pill.

daddysgotanew · 2020-10-31T20:10:00+00:00

Because men give it to them, mostly online. End of story.

If we got hit with an EMP tomorrow you’d see shit revert back to reasonable normality real fast.

GayLubeOil · 2020-10-31T21:26:11+00:00

Women are the primary consumers so all advertising is directed at them. Women gain their identify via consumption.

testing8382737 · 2020-10-31T20:04:09+00:00

Social media.

jdutches13 · 2020-10-31T21:24:36+00:00

This is simple

SOCIAL FUCKING MEDIA

women get way too much attention on there. Hence 5s getting likes and comments about how good they look by Simps that would never say this to them in person

So now every woman is walking around with an over inflated ego.

Whisper · 2020-11-01T10:05:35+00:00

Boasting is not necessarily the sign of a high self-image. It can be bravado covering severe anxiety.

Imagine, for moment, a typical white upper middle class American or west European girl in her mid-twenties. She's not accomplished, brilliant, or well read. Her achievements, if any consist of a college degree and little else... and it's not a degree in math or chemical engineering.

She doesn't have any feminine accomplishments, either. She's not kind, popular, or well-liked. She is not artistic or creative. She's not good at putting others at ease, or bringing out the best in them.

In short, her only source of self-worth is if people think she's attractive. Facebook and instagram upvotes are literally the only thing keeping her self-image going.

You get it?

She actually feels horrible. She's got nothing going for her; she a basic bitch. She actually knows. And she still has to put a brave face on it, and pretend she's okay.

And she feels helpless. That's what you need to understand about girls. They feel helpless in ways that we never do.

Because males start out at zero worth, and whatever we have, we first have to achieve. And we are used to achieving things. But women are seen as having inherent value. So they think that however good they were born to be, that's as good as they are, and as good as they could ever be.

Imagine feeling like nothing you did in life would make a difference. Like all you could ever do was put a positive spin on whatever you were born with. Or not.

Our culture has failed women, too. By not demanding enough of them. By not insisting they achieve something. Girls need work to do, not just praise for existing.

ICYlelouche · 2020-10-31T22:46:24+00:00

One word - Simps

Grave_Heresy · 2020-11-01T02:17:02+00:00

The problem is that the 8,9, and 10 women are insufferable to be around for 8,9,10 men (Hypergamy and all that jazz).

So the top 30% of men use these 4-6 girls as an easy lay. The problem is that this women get it in their head that because 8 man came over and blew her back out on a slow Tuesday that this is the type of man she is entitled to.

Because high ranking men readily sleep down to escape the nonsense hoops they need to jump thru to bed a high ranking female all of the mid to low ranking women get their ego inflated beyond belief.

They don't understand that these men will never commit to them. So when a 6 man asks a 5 female out, she honestly thinks that she is the one giving him charity because 3 nights ago, Chad was manhandling her.

All Western women are uber entitled and narcissistic but when a 5 chick gets piped down by a 8 Tyrone, she literally starts to think that she is a deity lol

daproest1 · 2020-10-31T19:40:37+00:00

Simps. Feminism. The media. Simps. Social media. Disney. Simps. Filters. Feminism. Simps. Sexual liberation. No social checks and balances like there were 50 years ago. Simps. Lack of real/good fathers in the household.

throw-away-1709 · 2020-10-31T19:05:49+00:00

Every girl is a Kween. Look up fds.

It is comical.

Actually - if you have high(er) SMV or/and RMV you will notice that the high HB have internally a lot less self sureness than a HB 6 trailer park.

But they have better guard arround their internals.

Thizzlebot · 2020-10-31T22:56:04+00:00

Internet has inflated their egos. You shouldn't be going out with busted bitches anyway that's your fault.

pehsxten · 2020-10-31T23:15:29+00:00

Social media rose the stock price of pussy to be incredibly high

Effective-Shop5215 · 2020-10-31T23:58:12+00:00

The reason is the rise in fat chicks. 70% of American women aged 18+ are either in the overweight or obese category. The average American woman is 5'4 and 171lbs, which is just disgusting at least... 40lbs over what she should be.

This means the skinny / slim but plain 5's and 6's get tons more attention than they should, and thus have to do tons of rejecting male advances, including tons of men on their own level.

So the market dictates that plain women have tons of plain men to dispose of in outright luei of bagging a Chad 3+ points above her own SMV.

As most average men face the dreaded prospect of either being alone or being with a fat chick beneath their smv, they reside themselves to being alone (mostly - some will dip thier standards for a fatty or outright porker who outweighs them by 50 pounds), yet continue to use the internet to get the attention of a plain Janes through multiple simping and bombing hundreds of dating profiles a week. Its similar to dropping petrol from aircraft carries onto forest fires.

jammyjam50 · 2020-10-31T20:18:03+00:00

Average chicks have that delusion because men above their league often use them as cumrags, in between real dating actual hot chicks.

That gives those average chicks a false impression that they belong in a higher league than they actually do.

THE WALL in their later years, corrects that delusion. Brutally.

PepinoSF · 2020-10-31T20:20:07+00:00

Also ban on bordelos. Given a chance to bang a nice bitch, no man will go for a landwhale. Regardless of the money, no matter what.

Once or twice banging a beauty, no man will go back to whales. So landwhales have to develop skills. Thats how it was for the most of the human history

redsanto · 2020-10-31T20:37:15+00:00

I have a coworker who is a 6 or 7 at best and always show me the amount of messages she gets from other guys via FB and other social media and i can testify by myself that she get hundreds of messages(and guys) daily and can also rise up her number significantly when she uploads a photo as a story. So you get the answer, blame other men with a combination of quarantine and the accessibility to smartphones by any guy over the globe through internet makes this perfect formula.

Hell, even i know a 40+ yrs woman (a solid 2 or 3) in real life who get a ton of messges and she always tell me how she can pick any guy, of course these guys look bad but they have money.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-10-31T22:50:37+00:00

Simps, technology/social media and juggernaut theory

superjerk99 · 2020-10-31T23:30:49+00:00

Its because of pussy boy men. They inflate their ego by simping so hard. And the era of female empowerment

Lorddevonshire · 2020-10-31T23:34:44+00:00

Guys are so thirsty these days. Their inboxes are full. Just the way it is.

Atrp1961 · 2020-11-01T01:34:21+00:00

If you think that's bad enough. Checkout some of those sugar daddy websites, even a -10 wants to be paid to go on a coffee date cue (my time is important syndrome) plus you see post wall upto 65 years old who wanna be treated like a prwincess/kween that she is.

Was talking to a 45yo redhead milf. Turns out she has expensive taste and wants $1000 a date lmaooooo.

Now the sub 25yo don't even wanna meetup,they wanna be paid for virtual date or facetime etc. You get the jist ?

One step further the 18 to 22yo dont even have pics in profile, except a blurry pic of who knows what, and wanna be paid before sharing pics.

There's a lot more but i will hold my thoughts.

OttoVonBismark71 · 2020-11-01T12:45:32+00:00

Probably because of guys like you who keep going out with 5s

cunningcaring · 2020-10-31T20:11:32+00:00

Confidence is a good thing.

rebuildingMyself · 2020-10-31T20:49:21+00:00

Social media rising from a fun hobby to a lot of people's very existence and validation sources.

Simps upvote/like anything with a glimpse of skin, even if the woman is sub-standard in real life. Tindr and other eSlut apps helped turn even moderately attractive women into turbo-sluts with extreme efficiency, but OnlyFans will seal the deal.

gitpullhoes · 2020-10-31T21:52:32+00:00

Supply and Demand baby. No matter what you think of her ego, fact of the matrer is that she’s a commodity and some dude out there is willing to spend thousands on her.

By definition she has more value objectively than you (assuming you’re not a model nor multi millionaire) thus is warranted that ego.

ColdBeing · 2020-11-01T00:54:20+00:00

I believe its moreover they listen to a lot of podcasts like callherdaddy or other empowering things. They tell these girls how to get "power" over guys.

Also, doesn't help the amount of simps out there on social media telling them how pretty they are and begging to have a date with them.

Ryzza778 · 2020-11-01T00:55:16+00:00

Social media has over valued women

cfbovernfl · 2020-11-01T01:00:11+00:00

Because so many men are simps these days. They make a 5 feel like she's a 10.

Rock_Granite · 2020-11-01T01:07:19+00:00

I once had a 5 tell me I was lucky we were hanging out because she was "so hot"

Great shit test. What did you say to her?

4everrekt · 2020-11-01T01:58:05+00:00

On social media, an average girl is treated like a celebrity.

wawakaka · 2020-11-01T04:08:58+00:00

Why Do So Many Average Women Have Such a Comically Overvalued Sense of Ego?

ANSWER: They live in an ECHO chamber.

PickUpScientist · 2020-11-01T05:33:35+00:00

Over the last two years I have been able to take my appearance from a low 3 to a mid 7 according to photofeeler. With regards to online dating, this has taken me from being able to match with the occasional morbidly obese American woman to now being able to have my choice of morbidly obese women on Tinder (should it come to that). For reference, I am about 12% body fat.

Fucking hell, I hope the Pareto thing is true. I'm almost there, but this shit can get disheartening.

2020-11-01T08:10:46+00:00

All guys want to get laid. Only the top 20 percent of men can get killer babes, and that means the other 80 percent have to settle. Ergo, they rush, in hordes to get the low hanging fruit.

The low hanging fruit, i.e., the 5s, get fucked, regularly, buy men who are 7s and 8s. But, of course, few marriage offers. So, while they can get railed by studly guys, but not married to them, they are still on the market, believing that they actually deserve quality men.

PepinoSF · 2020-10-31T20:13:18+00:00

Common phenomenon in the US is guy marrying low SMV woman, because he hopes that she will burden him with less shits, than a good looking one. Life usually proovs him wrong. AWALT.

All libtard media adds wihsper - you are beautiful queen, you deserve the best. It is easy to believe in this narrative, isnt it?

Simps are tsunami nowadays. They prove what crappy libtard media adds already said.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-10-31T18:54:21+00:00

You didn’t go out with her because you felt bad. You went out because you’re also a 5

CochinoChingon · 2020-10-31T21:50:40+00:00

short version, females gaslight each other.

long version to follow this comment.

NiceSetupYeahNice · 2020-11-01T06:44:39+00:00

Not enough psychedelics

Ray_Zell · 2020-11-01T09:33:21+00:00

Man, I disagree with all of you. You guys seem to think women actually feel superior in some way or others. I don’t at all. I think they feel very weak, all around, and feel insecure about it.

They don’t have superiority complexes they have inferiority complexes. The two just manifest themselves similarly.

squatch1601 · 2020-10-31T21:45:58+00:00

1) because like you said they are 4-6 s. Smack dab in the middle. Any lower and nobody is interested, any higher and most dudes are too intimidated to approach. The fact that they are not a default "hell fucking no" but somewhat approachable for most guys means this range gets approached the most. And since they get approached the most their ego is flying around with a jetpack.

2) ratings are subjective. I remember once when a couple of my friends were talking about how hot a girl they know is, showed me her IG I thought meh. I hit it off with a girl at a party, talked to a friend about her on my way back he thought she was meh. Sometimes we agree on who we find hot sometimes we don't.

G0rv · 2020-11-01T01:27:10+00:00

You get too many answers, but mostly shallow analysis.

I haven't seen anyone mention female game tactics yet, that's what it is. Yes it comes off as delusional when she's doing it a bit too much, but you still buy into that, not seeing the game.

Only reason to flaunt one's (imaginative) popularity is to appear more desirable, relatively, which a 4-6 needs to do (i.e. resort to cheap trix and game). (Whereas a 7-10 doesn't need to appear more of anything).

If she thought she was too good for you (an actual 7+) then you wouldn't even be speaking. She is trying to make you more interested in her by her trying to fake boost herself from 4-6 to at least a situational interpreted 7. This game tactic makes so much sense from a womens point of view as they are the ones prone to chasing what everyone else is chasing. Little do she obviously know that men don't chase something just because others chase it. So this tactic also reveals that the woman is a bad mens behaviour student.

tl:dr You see delusion but it's actually female game, (but it is such a poor tactic, one could almost instead say it's a coping mechanism).

sowhattwenty20 · 2020-11-01T05:49:44+00:00

I believe true body dysmorphia is on the rise. With instagram filters, combined with the thirsty beta simps doling out the narcissistic supply, women can start to believe they actually look like the digital image they present.

As a side note, are you really trying to date 4s, 5s, and 6s because you feel bad for them? Fours no way, 5s sneak them in the back door at night with the porch light off for a slump-buster. Sixes when you’re trying to get practice spinning plates, or for off-night banging.

Value your time and attention; failure to do so shows lack of self-respect.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2020-11-01T07:12:02+00:00

They don’t act like models. They act like 5s in a world of thirsty men. If you’re sufficiently high enough on the SMV ladder then her behaviour towards you will either change, or it will be an act and you’ll see through it easily.

A 5 can act like a queen in front of a 5 or 6 male because she has an advantage. In front of a quietly confident alpha you don’t need to stand for it. If she’s unpleasant then you move on and talk to the next person.

BORAT_SAGDlYEV · 2020-11-01T07:16:17+00:00

3soxfoxy · 2020-11-01T09:12:39+00:00

Because when most men see a beautiful woman (8 and up) they think there's no chance so they don't pursue. Average looking women are easier to approach because more men will think they have a chance with her. So there are more men chasing average women than very beautiful women due to them thinking they have a better possibility to be with her. Thus her having way more options than a drop dead gorgeous chick.

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2020-11-01T10:36:52+00:00

A 5, by definition, is attractive to most men. They all have hoards of simps worshipping at their feet. They could all hop on tinder and get laid that day. They could all get paid for sex. Hell, they could get paid just to show a nipple. They all know this.

You have to remember the life of a girl is vastly different to your experience as a boy/man. From the moment they grow tits, men's eyes follow them everywhere. They don't have to work for attention. They don't have to earn respect and wealth. It's all just given to them because they were born with a body that half of all men on earth want access to.

Add to that the fact they are told they can be anything and to anything men can do and do it better. When they actually go to do these things they are aided by the men around them and therefore really believe the lies.

So they are more attractive than most men (this is true) and they believe they can do anything better than most men (not true, but society protects them from the truth). Imagine if most women found you attractive enough to sleep with at a moment's notice and you found anything you put your mind to easy. You would have an overvalued sense of ego too.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-11-01T13:24:16+00:00

The worst are those stuck up whales on Tinder who dare to write 'I dont message first'

spdhegde · 2020-11-01T13:25:43+00:00

Rise of the planet of the simps

Nergaal · 2020-11-01T13:59:35+00:00

they have abundance mentality

roman99789 · 2020-11-01T14:23:57+00:00

Women get ego boosts from being in short supply on dating apps. However no matter how many men will fuck a 5, a long-term relationship is far more challenging than for a 10. 10s can walk down the street and find guys ready to marry. 5s get pumped-and-dumped.

FilthyStylish · 2020-11-01T14:28:12+00:00

Because if the girl is a 4 in your eyes, you’re probably a 2 hers.

-TempestofChaos- · 2020-11-01T14:36:02+00:00

also, whats the best way to deal with those that have this idiotic ego? Laugh and just say you're my little hot thing today?

deltaghost7 · 2020-11-02T02:27:58+00:00

Social Media.

jamiestarza · 2020-11-03T04:18:46+00:00

At the gym last week, handsome guy 7/8 coaching a 4 on a good day. Turns out they are dating from obv signs of affection. This type of couple is a common occurrence any given day of the week. Handsome Hank / basic Betty. Its a buyers market for women. Most and by most 95% of people underestimate the amount of actual single guys there are in any town or metropolitan area. There are LITERAL THOUSANDS of single eligible and good looking dudes in any city. Women are the buyers and the supply is high / demand low of men. Thus women can be as choosey or superficial as they can get away with. That is though Until they smash into the wall head first. That is when women tend to date their numerical equivalent. Buuuuuuuut something interesting happens when an actual 8/9 girl walks into the room. You know what I'm talking about. The young graceful feminine natural and effortlessly beautiful girl that all the other girls envy. When fine as hell Felicia waltzes in the hambeasts instantly dart daggers her way through their eyes. They suck their teeth while rolling their eyes because they all secretly envy and want to be her. They know it.. she knows it.. and we know it. In the presence of a beautiful woman there is simply no substitute or any cause of confusion. It only takes one event of this to happen and you will know precisely what I'm talking about. Thes basic bitches are having the time of their lives in the west bc there is no competition and actual attractive girls here are few and far between. Just remember the wall is relentless and things aren't so strange once you leave the west and the further east you go. Focus on your physique and finances and everything will set itself automatically in place. These garden variety thots will be the last thing on your mind once you begin attracting quality.

IXseed · 2020-11-05T16:13:29+00:00

Because y'all goofy mfs come on here all the time with these threads bitching about women.

bornmeagain · 2020-11-16T14:09:01+00:00

Dont you think its some sort of defense mechanism. A gielfriend of mine friend,tried to setup his friend in late 20s and her friend in late 20s.Both of them didnt have anyone for at least 5 years.

The guy,his friend is nothing special,he is not a model,but cant be called ugly,has average face and normal weight. On the other hand,when I saw her picture I got shocked,she was like 45-50kgs overweight and looked ugly as fuck. I asked him does his friend know how she looks like,because if I were him I would spit in the face anyone who would try to set me up with that monster. He told me that he knows and that he said that inner beauty is more important. When his girlfriend told her about his friend,she got angry and told her that she doesnt want to date first loser that comes around and that she is not desparate.She told the fact that she doesnt tell her doesnt mean that she doesnt have someone. His girlfriend and him thinks that she defending herself that way and she will 100% die alone.

georeddit2018 · 2020-11-23T14:19:45+00:00

Free validation they get online even which also sometimes come directly from good looking attractive guys who can't get laid but just validate her just to bust a nut, then bounce.

SBoy- · 2020-12-02T12:31:24+00:00

Social media, bro. Why would she mess around with a higher value man that she has to chase for validation like you when she can have 10 simps in her DMs stroking her ego and satisfying her attention cravings?

Attention is heroine to women, without it they realise their true value and crumble.

sunlituplands · 2020-12-08T06:49:53+00:00

She has Vagina

redpill_scientist92 · 2020-10-31T22:38:22+00:00

For every 5/6 that thinks she’s a boss, there’s a 7/8/even some 9s that think they are shit. In fact, most women have very low self esteem. Stop talking to colored girls (the kind that listen to cardi b and have trash pussy, value stripper life) and white chicks who suck black dick. In fact, delete your social media and pretend those people don’t even exist. You’ll start having better luck.

clickherebaby · 2020-10-31T18:56:47+00:00

Because men make them feel that way. Its all relative

wont_tell_i_refuse_ · 2020-10-31T21:18:35+00:00

Simple answer: social media. Any fatty can have 30 guys lined up to fuck her.

BasementOverlord6969 · 2020-11-01T02:12:25+00:00

Aren't you guys a part of the problem? I thought the whole idea of TRP was to approach as many women as possible? Isn't approaching them raising their egos?

Title	Why Do So Many Average Women Have Such a Comically Overvalued Sense of Ego?
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