Before, this made me very upset because I thought "why they are not capable of deciding for themselves?".

Family, female friends, male friends, coworkers, ..., everybody wants me to give them instructions.

What do we eat? What do we do? Where do we go? What should I do? What tech stack should we use (I'm a programmer)? Which tickets do we buy for the concert? Where do we seat? How will we go? What street do I take? What should I buy? Where do we go for traveling? What should I wear? How do I look? And so on...

Every time I have to decide everything.

Now, I said before this situation made me upset but now it looks very interesting but I don't know why is that.

Is this how society is or what is what I do that they think I make better choices or whatever?