Why would a wife of football superstar cheat on him?

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2020-08-01T11:09:35+00:00

Alpha is not your job. I could rule the world with an iron fist and have a bitch cheat on me. It is in her mind.

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-08-01T11:01:38+00:00

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TravisScottNL · 2020-08-01T12:23:40+00:00

Why do you all think that high SMV men can’t get cheated on? NOBODY is safe.

TeasingPenguin · 2020-08-01T12:47:48+00:00

"Now he’s depressed and considering retirement while having the best season of his life."

The fact he isn't solid in mentality or is a "rock" or her "rock" tells me all I need to know

He would have been exhibiting blue pill traits and turned her off.

Don't get depressed over a bitch

KirthWGersen · 2020-08-01T11:54:01+00:00

Goebbels wife cheated on him with multiple men. His children may not all have been his. Can you imagine the risk she took to do that? Women cheat on "alphas" all the time. They cheat for all kinds of reasons.

Greaterbird · 2020-08-01T10:52:32+00:00

The hedonistic treadmill. It's possible to get bored of anything and anyone. You'll stop loving any song or movie if you play/watch it every day.

Pair that with getting half the guy's stuff in a divorce and there's no real consequences for screwing around.

Makhmalak · 2020-08-01T12:32:45+00:00

This should be a lesson to all men. Even if your the most high value man, your wife can still cheat. Women are emotional beings and don't have any logic in what they do so don't try to find a logical reason for what they do.

Maxofwarcraft · 2020-08-01T14:55:48+00:00

Every single woman out there, no matter who they are with, always have their eyes lurking for a bigger better deal; whether that be for a hookup, or to branch swing.

My question is: Is this the classic case of women needing attention and failure to get so from husband, resulted in her fucking someone else?

Somewhat. A woman before you commit to her is quite different from the woman she is after you commit. That commitment, especially when it is through marriage in which she is given a ring, wedding, and legally tied to him and his finances, is the ultimate form of validation. She now sees her husband as a mountain that she conquered. That mountain is no longer as intriguing as it was before she reached the top of it. Her husband's attention/validation is not as valuable to her anymore. So, the woman in question now seeks that validation from other men.

A situation that is parallel to this is Ayesha Curry, the wife of Stephen Curry. She went on a national podcast and complained and said that she doesn't get male attention (which is 100% false), which bothers her. Her husband is in the 1% of the 1% of men, and that still didn't stop her from embarrassing him on a national podcast.

All-DayErrDay · 2020-08-01T12:08:09+00:00

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Whisper · 2020-08-01T18:30:40+00:00

He has money, abs, fame, power & bright future ahead of him. Logic says, he is at his peak SMV.

SMV is insufficient without game.

And Chad has indifference game, which is good for picking up chicks, but when you are in a relationship, you need control game.

Chad has no control game.

TelasRayo · 2020-08-01T12:28:41+00:00

Because AWALT

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-08-01T12:39:49+00:00

Eve essentially cheated on God with the Tree of Knowledge.. there's really no way to get around a woman's undulating feelings. Imo the best to do is to have a social structure that makes it more difficult for them to act on their feelings, which change moment to moment. Historically women's place in the great civilizations was as a beast of burden. Right now we are coasting on the inheritance of the greater Men that came before us.

I've had long relationships where I was absolutely the King and had full swagger in my girl's eyes.. in one case a girl I loved cheated on me and destroyed a years-long relationship.. only for her to try and come back into my life later on when I started to date other chicks.. only for her to lose interest again when my brother got sick.. and on and on etc etc, nonsense into oblivion..

Did I all of the sudden become a different Man? No, I was the exact same Man dealing with a different situation. Her hypergamy told her one thing in one situation, and something else in another.. that's it..

Our lives as Men were never supposed to be all about pleasing women. That we believe it's our life duty to take women so seriously rather than more important matters really just shows how low the West as a civilization has fallen.

omega_dawg93 · 2020-08-01T19:02:59+00:00

why?

simple answer: she's human and is controlled by her emotions/feelings. here's the difference btw men & women:

men E.T.A... meaning we get EMOTION, we THINK about it thru deliberate thought, logic, patience and reflect on past knowlege/experience... then, we ACT on the situation.

but women E.A.T... meaning they get Emotion, ACT on it WITHOUT MUCH THOUGHT, then, THINK about the consequences of their actions... usually much later and after the emotional storm. this is how after making you wait 3 weeks to fuck, she lets some guy in jamaica fuck her after knowing him for 30 min; his name doesn't matter.

so, when you're not around, and she FEELS, most of the time, she will ACT on it without much thought about you, ESPECIALLY if you're a beta type or the guy is chad... or both.

if you don't like this, don't deal with women... bc it's simply their nature.

the ONLY way to combat this and keep her (somewhat) in line is to set clear boundaries... letting her know that her actions will bring about definitive, firm, immediate decisions on your part.

bottom line: she needs to RESPECT you above ACTING on her impulsive emotions. it's not hard to do, but it can be done.

TheChadofChad · 2020-08-01T12:11:07+00:00

(AWALT) Make her have a high SMV then primal instincts kick in. She becomes attracted to the alpha male. The alpha male has a different meaning depending on the person. She may not see abs, fame or power as alpha traits. Those alpha male traits that "belong to him" may all be under her control through her manipulation. She may be foolish to think she doesn't need him to maintain said traits. Bottom line, he was lacking somewhere and she went to find it. Probably was just attention / infatuation.

JohnZoffman · 2020-08-01T13:31:49+00:00

Maybe because his face isnt very handsome

Texan2116 · 2020-08-01T14:36:05+00:00

Military wives are notorious cheaters. Maybe the single best indicator /demographic of cheating women, tbh.

Rkingpin · 2020-08-01T12:31:13+00:00

You can have wealth and status. But you cant buy game or the ability to stimulate emotions

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2020-08-01T13:09:09+00:00

Same thing as Jada, Will, August entanglement. Will Smith is a perfect 10, but that couldn't stop Jada's hypergamy. She cheated because Will wasn't giving her the 'feelings'. remember, women operate with their feelings, subjectivity that can't be rationalize.

qiis · 2020-08-01T13:46:56+00:00

Many people think this story is fake because no reputable source has covered it.

Elprez91 · 2020-08-01T15:18:15+00:00

Even the baddest man on the planet Mike tyson got cheated on Awalt.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-08-02T01:59:09+00:00

LDRs don't work. Who's she supposes to go out with, bond, and fuck with when you're 1000s of miles away on a football field? That or she was never really "with him" with him, and she just "committed" for the status and free shit

redhorndog · 2020-08-01T12:47:47+00:00

HYPERGAMY.

SECTION31BLACK · 2020-08-01T13:52:23+00:00

Never underestimate the Hypergamy!

eyeowe · 2020-08-01T14:19:25+00:00

*Atalanta

trpppp123 · 2020-08-01T14:28:34+00:00

Contextual alpha probably.

y0ussefhesham · 2020-08-01T14:59:47+00:00

" Now he’s depressed and considering retirement while having the best season of his life. "

He was probably beta as fuck. Money and fame don't mean shit when it comes to being Alpha. The fact that he wants to leave his ENTIRE CAREER behind for a woman tells me everything I need to know.

I'm not saying you shouldn't be sad over your wife cheating on you, especially when you had kids.

But the fact that he's not on his purpose and wants to risk destroying his entire life for it tells me he was probably putting her on a pedestal.

ramaga · 2020-08-01T15:54:23+00:00

Why would a wife of football superstar cheat on him?

It's like asking why do birds fly.

Because that's what birds do. It's their nature.

kyzen142 · 2020-08-01T16:04:26+00:00

Have you listen to patrice Oneal podcast well he says you gotta keep pimping your bitch.

Hypnot0ad · 2020-08-01T12:32:44+00:00

If you could eat chocolate cake for dessert everyday why would you ever eat a cookie?

mraees93 · 2020-08-01T11:56:59+00:00

She didn't get enough attention from him or the guy has the same level smv as him or simply that the guy is better looking and she just wanted a quick fuck

chatlatino · 2020-08-01T12:55:00+00:00

Jeff bezos, citadel ceo etc. It happens to everyone. Always has since the ice ages and will continue to.

Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits · 2020-08-01T14:04:02+00:00

If I had to guess, it would simply be because she thought she could get away with it.

warthundersfw · 2020-08-01T14:14:58+00:00

You can get a chads girl to cheat with you. You have to be available and pique interest. Treat her as schizophrenic and woo another personality from another avenue.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-08-01T14:21:31+00:00

FEE FEE TINGLES > FAITHFULNESS

jm51 · 2020-08-01T14:31:48+00:00

I've fucked a few of Chads girls. Not superstar Chads, I never moved in those circles. The guys that are Chad in a smaller pool.

The advantage that I had over Chad at that point in time was that I was there and Chad was not.

RelucBeam · 2020-08-01T14:45:21+00:00

What's the point in over-analyzing a situation like this.

You have no idea what their relationship was like or their personalities and character.

Anyone can cheat on anyone for a million different reasons. The foremost being because they can.

djc_tech · 2020-08-01T14:57:47+00:00

I’m not surprised - why are you? Women seek validation consistently. Men generally get their validation through their hard work, ability to produce something and through being a good father. Validation from other people shouldn’t be your end goal unless it’s your kids - anyone else can go pound sand. In this guys case he thought the same as you, that he’s not replaceable or that he’s immune from hypergamy. No guy is, that’s one of the things the red pill teaches you from the beginning, it’s just your turn. Given the chances almost any woman will ride the cock carousel especially if she believes there is no repercussions. That has to be in the back of your mind every time you talk to them. Long story short, no guy is safe from this so seek I seek internal validation only. Get to the point where if she’s dumps you it’s her loss; then move on with your life.

Aspanu24 · 2020-08-01T14:58:42+00:00

If he didn’t give her enough attention or make her happy, she seeked it out from someone who would. Even the kings wife will cheat if there’s someone out there ballsy enough that she spends enough time with. AWALT

bigtimeking69 · 2020-08-01T15:05:46+00:00

He has “abs” 😂😂

Pink_Hanna · 2020-08-01T15:10:42+00:00

There are many stories and fairy tales of women (or female characters) perpetually dissatisfied with what they have and wanting more. There has got to be a reason for that.... The reason is in women's mind.

BubblePomelo · 2020-08-01T15:11:50+00:00

should've been focusing on the UCL match regardless

cglehosit · 2020-08-01T16:12:04+00:00

Woman marries a football star -> woman thinks she is super hot -> woman starts to wonder if she can date up -> woman tests current man to see give her plausible deniability -> he fails whatever test it is (“omg stop working out so much, it’s only a game”) -> finds a man who tells her football players are assholes -> let’s that man stick his dick in her asshole

hatefulreason · 2020-08-01T17:11:10+00:00

steph curry, will smith, tom brady... the list can go on. AWALT

319Skew · 2020-08-01T17:11:46+00:00

As many people have mentioned, you REDUCE the chance of being cheated on but don't eliminate it.

A woman can cheat because of an abusive guy (emotional or physical) or because the cashier smiled at her and she's a Leo. Who knows.

When I was married, I remember having conversations where I was trying to follow the logic of my then wife and it felt like following a train as it crashes in slow motion while trying to keep track of every individual compartment. You just need to throw practical logic right out the window.

"She cheated on him so that they would have a closer bond. Sure. Whatever. Perfect sense." /s

MerryVegetableGarden · 2020-08-01T17:19:03+00:00

There aren’t ever any guarantees and you put yourself at special risk in LDRs. You can do things to mitigate risk (vet sexual history, look for signs, etc.), but, again, no guarantees. Women are cheating now more than ever. It’s easier now more than ever. The consequences of infidelity have never been less.

Rifleshoot · 2020-08-01T17:21:28+00:00

Something that a lot of people here like to forget about is that women do have personal agency. Hypergamy is not a guarantee of behavior, but rather a guarantee of attraction, just like hunger or thirst. If you are hungry, and someone sets a delicious bowl of food before you, you eat it because you have no reason not to. What if they told you it was poisoned before you ate it? Would you still eat it? Of course not. You may be hungry, but you know better than to let that hunger drive you to eat from a poisoned dinner. What about if you haven’t eaten in weeks? That poisoned dinner starts feeling a lot harder to turn down. So hypergamy can let a woman be “hungry” for a certain man, but she can still decide that that man is poison, or not. In this case, the woman decided that the new guy was worth satisfying her hunger for. She just didn’t realize that he was poison for her marriage, or didn’t care because her hunger was so great.

You can still find women with the self control to say no to any men that she hungers for, though it becomes rarer and rarer. The goal is to either be a better meal than what is offered, or to at least be satisfying enough that when a poisoned filet mignon comes around, her hunger is satiated enough for her to say no.

catz123456 · 2020-08-01T17:40:26+00:00

Many of these top athletes make it there cause of genetics, luck, and of course hardwork (practice). Doesn't mean they have an alpha mindset.

ppanther92 · 2020-08-01T17:46:50+00:00

First of all: wtf, thats the reason why he didn't play after the COVID-break? Danm bitch. Like you said, he had the season of his life...

In the topic: Women will potentially cheat on even the highest SMV guys. Maybe due to boredom, validation, getting off on the thrill, or something else.

cluelessguitarist · 2020-08-01T17:50:00+00:00

Who knows we live in an irrational world, better focus your mind on other things.

Jaganshi93 · 2020-08-01T21:15:13+00:00

FFS i wanted them to win against PSG

ta69999 · 2020-08-01T21:22:36+00:00

Cuz shes a hoe. When they talk about captain save-a-hoe as a bluepiller, those hoes are still the same even at the top and into the red pill. You can't change a hoe. Like the top comment said, it could be a number of reasons, but also you cant change a cheater. All you can really do is have a crap load of options and move on with it.

cphpc · 2020-08-01T21:41:19+00:00

Why ask a question you already know the answer to?

V8_Only · 2020-08-01T22:43:47+00:00

He isn’t cute lol

babybopp · 2020-08-02T00:10:41+00:00

Two things

Absence and comfort

Let me explain..

He circuits and is never home. He is absent. Think dependapotomus... same thing with women who marry military. They are the biggest sluts. So even though he was stupid enough to put a ring on it, she sees his SMV and knows he can slay any pussy. His problem is he let her know he isn’t using his SMV to fuck bitches and she believed him

Brings me to second point.. comfort. As she was comfortable and basically locked down the fact that he isn’t utilizing his high SMV, she deduced he is somewhat faulty. Why aren’t other women fucking him. Something must be wrong with him. That means I am the one who is stupid. Pussy dried up. She knew she is already ringed. She can get his money anyway. So, go fuck a community dick.

Or he is major alpha acting beta to get rid of a hoe.

Either way, don’t ever put a ring on it EVER! And fuck many bitches. Your life will be set.

WeddingCrasher91 · 2020-08-02T00:17:26+00:00

While reading that poat I thought she was a super model

skuttt · 2020-08-02T01:07:59+00:00

A little talked about (here) part of evo psych is that once a woman has secured a high value man she still has incentive to sleep with other high value men, even if they are (somewhat) less valuable.

The body assumes if you’ve been fucking a guy for a year that you have had a kid with him. Thus the next kid should ideally have a different father. Mixing your genes more improves the odds that you have at least one healthy, successful child. Birth control obviously changed the reality of this, but much of our hormonal output is not intelligent. It only had to be adequate enough to have humanity survive.

As per usual none of this is conscious.

Doesn’t help if the guy isn’t around. Women need security, and if you aren’t there they will find options elsewhere and if sex happens, well it “wasn’t her fault”.

schijtaandezeaccount · 2020-08-02T10:28:30+00:00

This is so sad. That man is a real baller..

BubblePomelo · 2020-08-02T13:28:29+00:00

Soccer players are away from home most of the time.

It's a LDR.

idevastate · 2020-08-01T12:36:34+00:00

Did you google his face? He's not good looking.

deeznutsbeswingin · 2020-08-01T19:25:37+00:00

Because he’s a simp

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