So this is something that has happened my whole life, I am slowly figuring little bits out but I could do with some theories to just call it out.

Pretty much a 27 year old virgin (only paid for it a couple of times this year).

Women I meet on nights out, on the train, friends of mutual friends, anywhere where I am actively trying to engage with them, they just start fights with me straight off the bat.

I never indulge, better at having amused mastery since finding TRP though. I always just stay happy, positive and never give in to their stupid perspectives. It's like all they give a shit about is breaking me down so they can confirm how they think they should feel about me, within the first several minutes of meeting me.

I never get anywhere with them. When I used to indulge they'd feel satisfied and get over the interaction. But I've realised the implications of that and now follow my gut feeling. "Yeah that's fine but I don't agree".

This is just how I expect all interactions with women to go at this point. Either I'm invisible or this happens. And I can't seem to get past it.

I was on holiday 2 days ago with my BP buddy. He gets laid left right and centre, doesn't lift, is BP as fuck, doesn't polarise, isn't particularly great looking (He's white and I'm Indian ftr). He got opened all weekend. I had interactions like I should have expected. He even joined in with them at one point so I would just apologise (for nothing) and the 'argument' could end (needless to say the holiday sucked after his decision).

What the fuck is up. Is this a show of interest. Obviously it's a shit test, but I never win it. I never give in my principles but clearly I'm doing something wrong. Would appreciate any advice.