ltrs 23 bday coming up soon, and was wondering if it would be simp and beta of me to text her best friends (which im not that close with) and tell them to invite her other close friends to throw a surprise party for her.

If i do i will look over invested and like a simp, vs if i just was nonchalant about it, fucked her and went on with my day

(Also, ltrs best friend that i could text might invite her friend group, which has a guy ltr made out with a while ago. dont know what to do about this)