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Yo, can't believe I'm asking help for how to deal with a hot chick. Be straight with me.

March 24, 2015
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Second year med student here, barely time to go workout (and to my happiness I stopped masturbating).

Hot redhead I've met in December and just started to break the ice with: I don't know if she's a virgin because she acts kinda slutty on her facebook but has a completely prude girl-scout behavior in class (also, sports everything in pink everything head to toe). She goes back to her hometown every weekend so it's impossible to game her on the weekend.

We are in the same clique but I have a couple more so if anything goes sour I ain't socially lost.

It's like I'm back in my pre RP days where I had only one girl in mind at a time and this time it's her: she's kinda dumb really and I don't think she's gonna make it to the end without skipping years or something; but when I look at her I'm pretty speechless by how feminine and all around beautiful she is.

I think I'll ask her out for a coffee and see how it goes. Any suggestions? Can you also help me on how to avoid getting her to be my next oneitis? Last one didn't go so well (I basically drowned myself in alcohol).

If it can help, I'm the 'jacked boy slut' in the group. Don't really know if she's into that. But damn, the smiles she gives at me... I shall get this back together.

Help me out brothas before it's too late.

(I lift, I fuck and I sleep tons. Don't give out basic stuff)

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Title Yo, can't believe I'm asking help for how to deal with a hot chick. Be straight with me.
Author Spiritualpha
Upvotes 0
Comments 3
Date March 24, 2015 10:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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[–]DevilishRogue0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a dick. Stop trying to impress. It will reap you serious dividends over the longer term.

As for the girl, assume she's seriously into you and that you're making it easy for her by making the first move. Amused mastery and your usual confidence. There is no trick to not developing oneitis, it just comes with experience. I'm sure you'll be fine.

[–]Spiritualpha[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You got me in a pretty boring night so I'll dig deeper into that "sounding like a dick"... You're right.

I've been feeling the same way for a while, but I don't really know how to get out of that without losing some sort of RP status I gained in this year and a half of personal growth.

If you have any advice, help appreciated (because it's also affecting my overall confidence and if you get me, it shows where you're not relaxed in bed).

[–]DevilishRogue2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been feeling the same way for a while, but I don't really know how to get out of that without losing some sort of RP status

You don't lose status by letting yourself not need to be the coolest guy in the room. If anything you lose status by needing to be the coolest guy in the room.

You don't need to impress anyone. If you understand the theory and can apply it that is enough. Everything else is tinkering. Unnecessary. Just relax, be confident in yourself and don't worry about what other people think.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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