"You can lose a lot of money chasing women. But you won’t lose a lot of women chasing money"

July 6, 2019

Is this quote true?

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Title "You can lose a lot of money chasing women. But you won’t lose a lot of women chasing money"
Author reddituser1011123425
Upvotes 237
Comments 66
Date July 6, 2019 8:10 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/you-can-lose-a-lot-of-money-chasing-women-but-you.244620
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[–][deleted] 173 points174 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

Who spends money on women?

Beta males.

[–]wonderdog888829 points30 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Whatever you think you can get with looks and charm, multiply that by 10 if you have some $$ (with looks and charm )

[–]RevolutionaryPea767 points68 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

There's a difference between having money and spending money on women. Displaying your wealth no doubt increases your SMV, but you don't have to actually spend it on women to fuck them.

[–]wonderdog888815 points16 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You don’t even need to display it.

Women just know.

[–]maji_ta 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

How do women know?

[–]Haki_User13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lot of bullshit in here.
What's your take exactly, be rich and be stingy and fuck women? Sounds great, doesn't work, never gonna happen. Actually you'll lower your high SMV by doing that because it'll look as if you have a fear of poverty, like the money you have you're unused to. Now do you need to buy a woman things to fuck her if you are rich, definitely not, that's in the beta's manual. But ffs live your life, party together, have nice dinners, travel together, whatever rocks your boat man. But if she gives you attitude or DEMANDS things and insists, let her know what the great huey says:
"Yeah you're cute, but don't let that shit get to your head,

because if this cutie won't do pimpin', another one will

And you probably roll with me because it's money in my pocket

So before then I gotta see you pop lock and drop it"


[–]VigilantSmartbomb-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They just do lol

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Savage! I like that

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]whoareyou311 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Idk. Im 26m and make about 190k a year and i dont think my money has increased my SMV. Girls dont really seem to care.

[–]wonderdog88880 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is good money for your age, but it’s not real money (this comes when your older or luckier)

But it’s enough that I thought it would be making a noticeable difference.

I could speculate that maybe your so alpha that your already getting max quality and max quantity. Or maybe you don’t know how to use the money yet. Ie your too flashy.

I have noticed that guys that are good at business deals, are good at women. There is definitely the same skills involved.

[–]Suffercure0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

how much do you make?

[–]whoareyou310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL i wished I was “alpha”. I have a long way to go.

[–]renaultcliodriver 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

Who spends money on women?

This comment is so retarded it begs belief. If you give up your time for women, you spent money on them, because time is money. Whether you like it or not you are paying for it one way or another. Don't delude yourself otherwise.

Also, money is fucking pointless. Just another socially constructed load of shit produced as a tool to control the masses. Spending it to enjoy yourself in the company of a woman is far less pathetic than spending it on digital video games and a life you wish you had whilst dying inside of your bedroom.

[–]BlackberryDaddy4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Money is pointless if you don't know how to use it. Money is simply a tool that can be very well used to enhance your life. Those stingy guys you're talking about may be rich, but they don't know how to use their wealth.

Also, I'm just curious, what exactly do you do? I've seen you bitch about how money is pointless, so I'm just wondering if you're just another average guy winning 50-80k a year clueless about how money can be amazing.

[–]renaultcliodriver 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Read the rest of my post. I basically say it's better to spend it on women than other methods, because in the end, money is just a tool. It's pointless. You can't take it to the grave. None of the material shit you buy with it matters.

You are better off taking a chick out of town and fucking her brains out all weekend enjoying lavish dinners, boat cruises and shit and having the time of your life than buying a bunch of collective bricks to die in.

Why save now to enjoy your life in retirement, a period that you might not even make because ill health could get you any day, instead of living your life up big time right now in the moment when you can? The future is not guaranteed and why would I rather live my life up when I'm an old cunt instead of now when I'm young, horny and raring to smash and have fun?

And no, I earn 6 figures on a US salary living in Eastern Europe where women love westerners with money. I am living the good life. Only when I started earning 6 figures did I realise that you it's fucking pointless - just more materialistic shit on top of material shit.

I'd rather go for a dinner, spoil a chick, smash her brains out afterwards, then do the same in the morning. I get what I want. She gets what she wants. Everyone is a winner. Even better, take her away for the weekend, fuck her in a nice hotel being pampered, and going on walks etc. instead of saving to die and paying off a mortgage whilst watching reality tv and playing video games.

All that does is make richer cunts richer. That's how they rigged the game. They got you buying materialistic shit you don't need to impress and obtain validation from other cunts that don't even give a fuck about you. It's a financial drip system. You're in the hospital bed like a financial junkie with consumer loans, student loans, mortgage loans, car finance loans, etc. and all the other shit being drip fed out of you all to pile on anxiety.

Fuck it, spend it all whilst you're breathing having great experiences and moments, live it up, and if I'm lucky enough to make 60 in this world I'll spend the last of it on a fuckload of hookers, a load of drugs, invite lots of mates around and go out with a bang on my own terms.

[–]BlackberryDaddy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you to some extent. Being able to make money your slave instead of being a slave to it is necessary to avoid being a average loser. However, instead of living a life where hedonism reigns supreme like yours (nothing wrong with that if you can afford it) , I tend to focus on creating value and becoming a producer instead of a consumer. Creating businesses out of nothing, grinding day in and out and being better than I was yesterday is what makes my life fun personally. I don't believe in conventional retirement.

While I do have partake in hedonism once in a while, it is working hard and scaling that makes my life worth it. It just so happens that doing so makes me richer.

[–]dani0982 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re spending money on them Wether you want to admit to it or not.

[–]lifeisweirdasfuck25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Money only increases your SMV if you are attractive already.

That means, you are jacked, socially savy (alpha), and rich.

See 50 Shades of Grey.

Otherwise you are just attracting women through beta mating strategies, and you will get fucked.

See Jeff Bezos.

If you have money and are not redpilled about female nature, good luck.

[–]Protocol_Apollo58 points59 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Not entirely.

Specificity trumps everything.

If you want women, chase women

If you want money, chase money

Chasing money can bring you some women but are these the women you want even for casual dating?

Money isn’t the end all be all by any means. It’s a piece of the puzzle, that quote makes it look like it’s the key to women. It’s not.

Plenty of guys with money can’t pull girls

[–]mastercheifer21 points22 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Very true. Good friend of mine is insanely sucessful, has 3 companies each of which pays him a more than generous salary.

The dude is extremely bad with women and get absolutely vapid cunts to date, then worships the ground they walk one when they touch his pee pee, and blows his money on them.

Business sense and dating sense are 2 different beasts

[–]RevolutionaryPea720 points21 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely. Lots of businessmen display strong alpha traits towards other men. That's how they become successful. But they can be total betas when it comes to women. Just look at Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk etc.

[–]thy_shall_win13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

They aren't alpha. They are more likely psychopaths who are all very clever.

[–]LumiPvp7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Elon Musk is one of us weebs. If he gets a date he'll end up accidentely ascending to true god levels. He just wants to live a quiet life like Kira Yoshikage and not get too much attention by the media.

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He has an objective that supersedes all other diminutive goals like money fame or women, and that is making our species multi-planetary within our lifetime.

[–]thy_shall_win3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He definitely doesn't want to live a quiet live. As clever as the man is, he loves the spotlight. I don't know why people have such a clouded judgement for him. Yes tesla seems fantastic.

[–]Protocol_Apollo13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I love Elon- he should be the face of humanity’s potential but he’s an absolute beta for women

The guy has a very supplicative vibe to women, he even said he can’t “feel normal without being in love” and he’s almost depressed without a partner

[–]benmarvin1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who the fuck gets married and divorced to the same woman twice?

[–]Coumadin122 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't remember the specifics, but wasn't Carl Sagan a similar figure to how Elon is now to humanity (though through different mediums) but was somewhat of an alpha-esque player at the same time? I remember reading something along those lines.

[–]Believeinyourflyness0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is your friend's name Elon?

[–]Standgrounding1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, his surname is Musk and he happens to own SpaceX and Tesla Motors, too!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Goddamnit you just described me, except I'm broke as shit. No wonder my last relationship was shit.

[–]lookoutitscaleb1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not to mention staying on the hussle women can get tired of you not being around.

I have "lost" women because I'm too busy taking care of myself.

[–]juliank47[🍰] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Money can be used as a compensation for being fat/ugly/weird. You don’t need it to get women, but it sure as hell helps.

Lots of fat ugly motherfuckers with some dough running around with 9-10s.

[–]bowhunter85711 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Money can get panties off but it can’t get them wet.

[–]chaching1316 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s what KY jelly is for

[–]AV_Empire0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the best comment on this thread.

[–]jakethesnake50009 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This quote is basically implying that if you focus on your purpose/mission/goals ie money, then women will chase after you because you are too busy to give them all of your attention, as you are creating value for yourself.

On the other hand, if you are solely focused on getting ass, you will at most remain stagnant in your live.

So yes, for the most part this quote is correct

[–]denchbench6668 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It is true, but don't look at it in the sort of way that you must only focus on money, or your business or your job and not women. Rather, it's about prioritising. Once you prioritise other things before women then you are alright

[–]thenewyorkmind1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s like women can smell how pathetic you are when you make them your first priority. Definitely been there before, women wouldn’t even look my way when I’d go out. Now I’m focused on my dreams and women are the last thing on my mind. I get the opposite reactions now

[–]cat_magnet5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

One things for sure, manipulative women can destroy your focus and derail your goals if you allow them.

[–]Sin-Silver22 points23 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Spend your money improving your life style and yourself. Invest in a nice home, a health lifestyle and a get a good career, and the woman will follow.

[–]idontmiind2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

you'd be better off taking this as the truth instead of the opposite. That's it

[–]geo_gan2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Even if I had shit loads of money I think if I was looking for a decent LTR I would hide it all until she proved she was interested in me and not the money. Only an idiot arrives up in the Lamborghini to try and impress, very hard to filter out the fakers and gold diggers after this.

[–]BouncyShroom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Personally, It is essential that a man priorities his career first and I'm saying this from my experience

Women come and go, even the "unicorns" or the ones you think a ltr would work with. If you don't make money and your career a major priority then you are playing a very risky game.

A woman can switch to another man at the snap of the finger. If you make her a bigger priority than your job, or get indulged with her a little too much it can be detrimental if you begin to pause with your own life. If she does decide to jump, at least you have some stability in your life if you have your career down.

[–]MattyAnon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. Build yourself in all ways. If you want money, do that.

  2. Women are SECOND in your life, not first.

[–]jm511 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Many years ago I had a part time job canvassing door to door. One of the women I worked with used to be married to a workaholic. She got tired of never seeing him and they divorced.

I met the new guy she lived with. Decent guy, easy going, good company etc. Her deal for him moving in with her was that he didn't get a job. He seemed to enjoy being a kept man. Takes all sorts.

I guess it's down to whatever you bring to the table that she wants. Must be plenty of women that would enjoy having a successful never home husband. My coworker wasn't one of them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Richard branson vs bill gates Steven tyler vs jeff bezos

[–]Jsieijejeieokkd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this quote I think some of you are taking it out of context. To me it means have your mission follow it and the women will come. Don’t make women the object you chase. Not sure I got it right.

Cue, the “Gold Digger” song...

[–]letmereadthatshit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Get money so you can live a Comfortable life with or without women. Get money so you can feel free and not stuck in a 9-5 everyday .so you can support your parents and give them a good life .so you can travel around the world and buy things you always wanted. Women love men that can get what they want that have resources and freedom . So if you can have all that and know the red pill youre good perfect balance

[–]Locogooner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not necessarily.

Try and see how much time you have left for chicks if you’re working 80+ hours week chasing dollar.

[–]Gordon-G0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Greed Is Good

Women mostly Evil

[–]talentedmagick0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Redredrock. . . Hoohah!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Doesn’t matter. Do what you want and don’t worry about it. You’re going to die someday. Valar Morghulis.

[–]georeddit20180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Invest on yourself and focus on your purpose. You cant loose money this way.

[–]PolesWithGoals0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

100% true

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

the way i remember this quote:

"you can run out of money chasing women... but you'll never run out of women chasing money."

told another way:

"just keep pushing forward with your purpose, goals, aspirations, etc., and then look in the rear view mirror... the women will be right behind you."

and one last one for the married guys:

"... run out of money... you might run out of pussy. very few will stay for the struggle."

[–]GlobalArachnid0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

First part is true. Women can be a time, resource and money sink.

Second part is bullshit. Look at how many STEM guys are kissless virgins. They're chasing money, but they usually don't have the looks, social skills and opportunities - this last one is the big one - to even have the option of talking to a woman.

There's a reason why programmers and engineers are stereotypically virgins, despite all the cash they make.

[–]Estrogenoxygen0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women aren’t attracted to money itself, they’re attracted to men who have the skills and wherewithal to accumulate that money. Having money is an indicator of having high SMV.

[–]Jsieijejeieokkd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

How about this first part true, you will lose a lot of money chasing women.

Second part, changed to read: “instead be the best version of yourself and chase your dreams.”

Money is great but chasing money for money’s sake is not healthy. Chasing money so you can experience what you want to and be the best man you can is.

But then again, a blowjob and a sandwich is a great thing to chase too!

[–]entrep4-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]RedPillAlphaBigCock-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"You can lose a lot of money chasing women.

True - don't fucking spend money on them

But you won’t lose a lot of women chasing money"


But still have your life in order and have money for YOURSELF - But yes, you can share some money for good experiences with GIRLS THAT HAVE PROVED THEMSELVES to being good to you

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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