Younger 14 year-old sister is turning into a hardcore feminist SJW. What the fuck do I do?

July 27, 2017

I always felt that it was my responsibility to take care of her, I've always supported her and guided her, in school and in life in general, dad is a beta weak simp. She now gets constantly "triggered", she thinks that men and women are equally strong, that a women can do anything that a man can do, I showed her some scientific proof into why that is wrong, and I felt her heart sunk from all the feminist bullshit she's been told. She then proceeded to show me some stupid buzzfeed video about some trans-looking "androgynous-sex" women, who had broad shoulders, complaining about how strong she is, and that women can be strong too, and how the world shames her. One time I criticised some fat lady on TV, for being a poor role model, she went all sjw on me for fat shaming.

She goes to a prestigious preppy all-female school (thanks to me tutoring and mentoring her), were she's constantly told all this lefty sjw rhetoric, she constantly critiques white people, like oh "there is no black people in that photo", she always keeps talking about privilege and all that BS, she sounds like fucking laci green. None of her views are organically of her own, she hasn't fucking lived long enough to do so, especially at that age, but fuck me, she's absorbed all this sjw shit and she's rigid about it all. Sometimes she says something to the point, that I don't want to fucking know her anymore, and she can go and slut off!.

She thinks that its a merit to be a strong single mother, raising your own child by yourself, I challenged her, then she brought up some bullshit that, what if the man left, or raped her?..... or some horseshite, like were the absolute fuck does she get exposed to all this shit. One time also she was complaining, and I gave her some wisdom, about why she needs to persevere and be headstrong and stop complaining about her life, and be grateful, then out of the blue she brought in some BS, about men raping and sexually abusing young girls, like what the absolute fuck.

On top of all that bullshit she apparently has "social-anxiety", (I go to secretly go to drug rehab, so I know what anxiety fucking looks like) I challenged her and told her that you just have a lack of confidence, and sometimes your anxious as a result, as most people would be, that she doesn't have "[chronic] anxiety", because she really doesn't. So now shes doing some thing that really pisses me, off. She shakes her legs, when ever she's talking to me, or around me, a.k.a trying to simulate what a ""panic-attack tm"" looks like, like her favourite utoobe vloggers, then magically stops when I look away. What the fuck!. The more I interact with her, the more I don't want to know her, for what she'll probably become, then again I don't want to be that coward that walks away, what should I do.

She also has an "eating disorder"... only when she's eating disgusting healthy food, but not nice junk food. haha lol, and whenever I tell her off to finish her food, she goes all, sjw "what if I have anorexia, stop trying to force me", then starts crying and goes to her room kind of bullshit. When ever she asks me for advice, or that I 100% know what is best for her (*ego aside), she then starts telling me I'm oppressive and always forcing her, I don't ever want to call her a bitch, but fuck she's becoming one.

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Title Younger 14 year-old sister is turning into a hardcore feminist SJW. What the fuck do I do?
Author 29thofmarch2017
Upvotes 66
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Date July 27, 2017 5:04 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev98 points99 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't waste your time. Just gently correct her when she fucks up - but don't argue with her.

Ex. When she goes on about how she "don't need no man" etc. Ask her if she thinks it will be easier to find a man when she's 25 or 45? Whatever exception she raises doesn't matter, just "On average, do you think it's easier to find a man when you're 25 or 45?"

Just plant the seeds, don't worry about "saving" her. Maybe by 25 she will get her head out of her ass.

[–]1RedPillFusion13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This has always been my mentality and approach towards my sisters. They won't always do as I would, nor should they. But if you put them on the defensive, they will rarely if ever listen to or seek your wisdom. With this approach they will appreciate alternative perspective and respect you for your consideration.

The results in my case have been both sisters (both full grown adults, one older and one younger) coming to me for advice often for very important decisions or issues in their lives. They both regard and treat me like an older wiser brother, even though they are both wise in their own right.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn, 25. Sad!

[–]damaged_goods42039 points40 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She's only 14 and probably doesn't fully realize she's being retarted (also kids are very susceptible to external pressures). If she doesn't grow out of it just show her some Ben Shapiro vids and she'll be fine.

[–]RedSkeller19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like a mix of seeking attention and trying on different personas. She's trying to find her place because she is young, and likely is thriving on validation. Best thing you can do is guide her, make sure someone is holding her accountable for her actions.

[–]Red-Curious16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

men raping and sexually abusing young girls

The feminist agenda depends predominantly on fear and shame to control its populous. The fear comes from this type of garbage. They will say: If left unchecked, all men would be rapists and abusers. That's why society has to set restrictions on men, to help them become functional members of society. If you don't help us, you might get raped too. Oh, and you BP guy over there? I'm not worried about you raping me, but that's because you're a model citizen, exemplifying all the ideal qualities of what a tamed man should look like. Keep being good and maybe I won't shame you for being so disgusting when you fantasize about me alone in your basement.

How do you help your sister avoid this fear and shame based strategy? More time = more influence. She might take a lot more time than a normal person might, so it might get to a degree when the effort outweighs the benefit, but that's your call to make. But point out the hard truths about life whenever you see them - not in movies, but in real life. If she gets an orbiter, show her what she's doing - that she has a lizard brain too. If she dates a nice guy and she's not long-term happy, point out why she's dissatisfied and help her do some soul searching. These type of people don't change until they're able to internalize the message to their own life circumstances.

[–]hamstercide15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

that a women can do anything that a man can do

Why would you bring your own sister down by making her believe the opposite? I'm in academia (maths) and there are tons of brilliant, sometimes also good looking women around me. You're stunting your own sister's potential for what some circle jerk club on the internet told you? As for the rest of the stuff just ignore it. It's just a phase.

Also you sound like a fucking retard. "a women"

[–]thiswontwork191 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't pretend they can do anything a man can, if they could they would have had their own societies or be better at something, literally anything, but they haven't and aren't. He shouldn't go around rubbing it in her face but if she is going to spout complete nonsense she better be prepared to be challenged.

[–]hamstercide7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't pretend they can do anything a man can

Funny, they did in WWII while men were out on the frontlines. In any case self-limiting beliefs are idiotic and poisoning your own family member's mind with them is also stupid. You sound like you're bitter and have a small dick.

[–]thiswontwork190 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait do you actually think all the men left during the war and women were running anything? lol... that would be too sad I hope that isn't the case. Your view is self-limiting and idiotic btw, poisonous make believe.

[–]HappyScribe14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Treat her like any woman giving you a shit test: laugh at her, tussle her hair, and in the worst case agree and amplify.

[–]Rushed770 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Elaborate on the latter option ?

[–]cdogg751 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

if she said "men are all rapists", your reply would be "oh ya, anal rapists, and we love it."

[–]Westernhagen 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Demote to anal-only plate.

[–]That_Deaf_Guy22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

holy fuck, guy.

[–]cdogg750 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

too young?

[–]That_Deaf_Guy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]mrpoopistan3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Superb shitpost.

Hybrid golf clap / slow clap has been awarded.

[–]SpanishHeat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmfao that got me going for a bit.

[–]Nucka574 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Rollo got a new book out, said it talks about RP parenting. Although you aren't her parent reading Rollo's work can't hurt and you might get some useful tidbits that you can apply to her.

[–]Aptote4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

treat her like the bratty little sister that she is

she is simply seeking validation/attention etc

amused mastery, tease her, etc

keep your "frame"

women are going to women, even sisters, cousins, aunties, right on down the line

[–]Carbone21 points22 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

She's lost

[–]Thizzlebot7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

From my point of view the Jedi are evil

[–]JustOneMoreAcct3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Remind her that you are a big follower of the feminist movement....when you are about 3 feet behind it.

[–]marianasentmenudes2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. This is why I joke around with my cousins, especially the female ones, about "rapefugees, NOT WELCOME"

I try my best to make sure they don't eat all of the SJW crap

[–]Apexk93 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

don't help her ever again.

and if she ask for help.

"you're a strong independent women do it yourself"

[–]Rocky_Bukkake3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

she's a teenager retard

[–]le_king_falcon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just don't engage IMO. My sister is a hardcore feminist lesbian.

I'm not going to win because she is 100% certain that she's a disadvantaged as fuck in her field and the world at large. With regards to her field that is true, but it's not because she is female, it's because she wasn't born with the right friends and resources. Surprisingly firms that specialise in protecting the assets and wealth of middle and upper class white men like to hire middle and upper class white men. A working class lesbian ain't gonna do, no matter how driven or intelligent she is.

Such a shame but I've found I like having a sister who gives a fuck about me and family gatherings not being awkward. So I prefer to steer clear of dangerous topics.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't save her she don't wanna be saved.

[–]mrpoopistan2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Give her a bar of soap. You might not be able to stop her from being a hippie, but you can at least encourage her to not be a dirty hippie.

Seriously, I'm fairly liberal, and the hygiene issues with chicks in this side of the political spectrum are sometimes . . . well, they're hygiene issues is all I'm sayin.

[–]Cunt_Robber1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you do teach her anything, do it through your actions. If she's smart enough, she'll pick up on it. If not, well theres not much you can do. The age itself may also be a factor - she is VERY susceptible to all kinds of influences. Her hormones are going crazy. It's the beginning of the age of rebellion. If she comes to you, listen. If she doesn't, let her be. Sometimes it's best for people to figure out life lessons through mistakes.

[–]throwdownshowdownman1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

pick a specific SJW subject, search both sides and opinions thoroughly and form your own opinions on the subject well enough that you can talk to her about it and be informed

[–]ready__set__go1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She's 14. 14 yo are obnoxious knows-it-alls. They're forming opinions for the first time (or, really, absorbing them from whoever is around them that they look up to). Just let her grow up and mature. She'll eventually outgrow a lot of that (although it might take years).

Don't alienate her by calling her names or arguing a lot. That'll just drive a wedge between you two. You can make your opinions known respectfully, if she asks. That's all you need to do.

[–]ControlBlue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

OP, don't give up on your sister, if you do you become part of the problem, not the solution.

Respect her individuality though, make her realize she is getting played by an ideology, once you do let her make her choices. At least you did your part.

[–]Onna9991 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope she grows up like that and kick you to the curb where you belong, oh horrible one.

[–]JackGetsIt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Show her this and this, and this. Then hit her up with a cute boy maybe he can persuade her...

When she gets older hit her with this.

Above all understand that even if you could convince her to become an antifeminist she really can't because she will be an outcasts with her friends and might have her grade affected. At her age emotions and fitting in is more important then facts and politics; it doesn't mean she will be a feminist forever, hopefully. So don't deride or insult her for her views (it will only give her what she wants: a victim status). Try using some occasional light Socratic questioning if you really want to engage her.

If all that fails hit her up with Lauren

[–]Ambiguousdude0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stop engaging her on these topics, as far as she's concerned that's her battlefield.

Ignore her when she says SJW crap or just hardly agree "I guess" otherwise you're inviting yourself to a fight you can't win.

Talk about literally anything else and if you have to give your opinion on attractiveness just state it as your opinion don't try to reference your position like it's a PHD defence.

[–]tossa010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Gently guide her when appropriate. Don't get emotional, and don't over-invest in her mistakes. Lead by example.

[–]kindlygrammarhelper0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]1anonlymouse0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

she sounds like fucking laci green.

Laci is coming around. The die cis scum girl also came around and is sensible again.

Don't argue with her too much, it'll just make her dig her heels in. Try agreeing with some of her stupid ideas every now and then, see if she reflexively disagrees with you.

[–]Shaman66240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just hold your own frame and agree and amplify the shit out of everything she says.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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