Im going to start this off with i've been a fairly busy man this last year. I have a gull time job m-f, and training heavy powerlifting, renovating my house, live with a woman, and am trying to start a business. With that said, I have a few nights a week including weekends where I am free.I'm also open to lunches, someone coming to the gym with me etc.

So for some reason, none of my friends ever want to do anything during the days i am available. They will hang out with someone else that same day, always have plans, or whatever. Also, many friends will plan a get together, and invite me 30 minute to an event. Of course I say no during the week. I need some notice.

I also do initiate things, and most times people say they can't that day, or at that time, and most of the time select a time based on on their business, but silly things like "I dobt like waking up at 11 on saturday"

Anyways, has anyone else been in this situation? What did you do about it? Is this perhaps a problem with myself? Maybe I need a wider social circle?

Thanks for any replies.