"We make a living with what we get, a life by what we give." - Churchill

Becoming a man. It's what we've all come here to accomplish, if not enhance our own personal sense of. Our masculinity. Volunteering certainly can aid one towards this end. This is because volunteering is seen (and justifiably so) as an act of decency, kindness and as a force for good within the world. It is an act of building; building up yourself as you build up the world around you. It is an utter act of selflessness, but one that also gives back.

There are several reasons for this because;

  1. when you volunteer you give as well as receive: It is an investment. One that costs you nothing but a little time, energy and will power. The returns for which can be varying but are almost always positive.

  2. You enhance your life experience: As you expose yourself to a different point of view that separates you from the typical work/social/consumer/provider/recreational roles that you assume in daily life. Volunteering allows you a level of objectivity as you have no obligations other than those you choose to assume.

  3. You increase your network: which is nothing but positive. Especially due to the of the calibre of people volunteering can bring you into contact with. You may come across people less fortunate than you who provide a real first hand appreciation for all the good things and blessings in your life. People who are generous enough to volunteer often are high calibre people and these relationships can greatly influence many facets of your life; personally, professionally and recreationally.

  4. Your SMV/reputation is enhanced: Volunteering is a very unique tool to increase your SMV/reputation. It enhances your character and also gets your name out in your own community in a positive manner. And who doesn't want to be around positive people?

  5. You increase your sense of self efficacy: This is one of the most important benefits. Humans (for the most) are social creatures. We need to feel a sense of acceptance, a sense of belonging. Volunteering provides a wholesome avenue to accomplish this, which in turn builds your own sense of self value, worth and confidence.

  6. Finally but most importantly: Volunteering makes you a better person, and subsequently a better man. Which at the end of the day is why we've all subscribed to this sub. Why you've taken the time to read this far.

As a man, regardless of your current circumstances, you can be a force of great good in the world. Your world. Volunteering provides an unparalleled opportunity to affect real positive change within your own life; family, social circle and community.

It can create a positive feedback loop that motivates you and cultivates in your life an environment of positivity. Just by simply giving freely of your time, energy and presence to a worthy cause. So research something you're passionate about. Something you want to get involved in. Then do it. It doesn't matter if you volunteer at an animal shelter, a fire & rescue department or a homeless shelter. They will all impact your life in a positive manner.

On your journey to becoming the type of man you envision for yourself, keep in mind the value volunteering can bring to your life. There is mostly nothing but positive outcomes to be gained when you decide to be a man and volunteer. So approach volunteering with the right sort of attitude, and you'll definitely receive far more than you'd ever thought to give.

Stay classy bros!