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28M im immature for my age.

February 10, 2022

Im 28M i feel like im too much immature for my age. Im totally off from my same age school colleagues as they have passed me in every aspect of my life. And now im with a group of guys but feel like they have passing me in life too. I feel like my life has stuck while others move forward. Im still like an 22year old child from looks and mentality. I have an skinny body soft voice and doesnt have much body strength. Also when i compare myself with my same age colleagues i feel like i would never do things and achievements they have done for their age. They have find partners married and having kids startinh their own buisnesses traveling migrate buying and selling cars etc. but my problem is i dont know why im so weak why cant do things like them why i have no inner drive etc. even im in their presence i feel like im submissive towards them even after 10 years of leaving school. I dnt know any responsibility as a man how to take lead how to plan how to manage my salary my life or my targets etc. even guys younger than me ate soreyed their life. At this age i feel like an carefree guy who has no ambition of marrying or having a serious life. I never had a serious relationship but the girls i been with when i hear about their past lovers i feel so inferior like these dudes have had all figured out in life while i know secretly i can never mature like them so i have sabotage many relationships myself in fear of not good enough and not mature enough. Now i know what redpill is but idont know how to be mature for my age

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Title 28M im immature for my age.
Author blackhammer57
Upvotes 2
Comments 10
Date February 10, 2022 4:39 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/28m-im-immature-for-my-age.1101375
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/sparxs/28m_im_immature_for_my_age/
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[–]KillaKyleKlan 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

First rule: stop comparing yourself to other people because it doesn't do any good for you man. Thinking about other people's success will only dig your hole deeper.

Second rule: Lift and eat a paleo diet, you'll get big, be very healthy, boost your testosterone and keep your brain sharp. Look up how to boost your testosterone naurally with food and basic supplements like zinc and vitamin d. The more testosterone you have in your body, the more successful you'll be, it's so vital. Practice nofap and get rid of porn as well and you'll have crazy energy and focus. A men's sex drive can be focused on other things besides sex.

Third rule: Stop worrying about chicks and get your life straight first, men can still have kids at by 35 without increased risk for birth defects, I'm pretty sure. I've never had a serious relationship either, But i've watched people become simps over time and it's pathetic. You'll be steps ahead of these simps because you know how not to get screwed with RP. You're not behind in anyway. Relationships are something I'm not into unless she is really special. Chicks come and go, you should know that....abundance mindset.

Just relax man, you'll be fine. Just take action on something you wanna do.

[–]blackhammer57[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you. Your reply is the best reply i have ever gotten in any of my posts on reddit. So thank you again. Yes i will lift and eat healthy. And im kind a addicted to porn, but i dont fap, i mastubrate till peak and stop when it comes to cum. Been like this for 3years now. Im really horny and have a high sex drive and im up for sex anytime of the day. But ever since i know im single. I have sabotaged all things that ever closed to a relationship. When i get a girl when i hear how their past lovers and how organized how matured how they took lead how they suprised her how they were good with financially etc makes me paranoid and when i know i can never be like them i eventually ruin relationship. Tbh even i know im not mature for my age. Both looks and mentally. Even a guy who is younger than 5-6 years dont look up to me or respect me. I dont have that big wide look of a someone elder someone wise etc. Even by looks im so young and naive. So they dont respect me as an elder or they simply dont care and treat me as one of them. Im tired of even in public situations get treated by young dudes disrespectful toward me as i have no such mature big scary vibe. Im always a soft innocent meek guy who is timid and submissive to anyone. No any girl ever took me as a leader. They never afraid or respected me as they respected or fear of their exes. I feel like im an empty shell.even in workplace even people younger than me are having their backbone straight and work without getting bendover to anyone or taking shit from anyone. But everyone messes me diss me treat me bad as they know im so soft and a immature. No one can tell me im 28 by my looks or behaviour and just because they treat me like a young unimpressive guy now i act like a one also. I feel like i stay same while every generation is passing me. To tell you my dad is also same. He is soo naive soo immature soo childish even at age 65 he is like a child. Submissive to anyone. My mom takes the lead and runs the family while my dad is a whimp. Its so pathetic seeing this but all these i had no idea who a man is. But after red pill of dating and self improvement it reeks me how my dad acts. But even i f iknow these theories im still immature im still carefree without a seriousness in life. I think i have this Peter Pan syndrome but i dont know how to over come it. I just need to be feel respected to my age and act like my same age colleagues. Otherwise every year i fall behind after every young guy and they just pass me over. Ifeel like i simply lack masculine traits as my father never had any. But i dont know at age 28 i dont know how to turn all these around as im so sad about being single alone and have no social life. I got soo many things to figure on top of this which a person my age should have

[–]hltr78 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Imagine being jealous of people having kids. They’re a waste of time and money. You should be blessed that you have no kids and are saving yourself the stress while maintaining freedom and sanity.

[–]blackhammer57[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

But im speechless when people ask about it

[–]hltr78 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol tell them you’ll think about having kids when you’re 70. That always works for me

[–]blackhammer57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

well im ok with not having kids, but i cant bear this feeling of being Single, i feel like my life has stuck somewhere while others pass life by step and step

[–]Flimsy_Theory_73 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

You need to start semen retention, it’s the best option you have r/semenretention

[–]blackhammer57[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Im already on it for about year or two now

[–]Flimsy_Theory_73 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Have you ever listed down what your flaws are and actively worked on them? Thought about spending the next year or so focused solely on finding your purpose or main serving mission in life?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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