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3rd date no sex, because of me, what to do?

December 3, 2021

Still a virgi at 23, I've been dating this girl which seems pretty interested in me

1st date took her to the movies, had fun, but nothing happened

2nd time took her to bowling and dinner and I implemented tons of kino, I saw her good responses and ended up kissing

3rd date she comes to my place (still living with my dad) to watch movies and eat some weed-brownies, we ended up making out in my bed, but I didn't know how to escalate to sex, my dad arrived home so I did felt a bit uncomfortable he could hear us.

Also, she never removed her shoes while in bed lmfao so I thought maybe she wasn't sure of having sex but can't really know because I didn't escalate

Question is, I'm afraid to ask her on more dates without sex and her losing interest because of this, what would you do? Do you think another date at home (to close the deal) would be lame? Or what other ideas could works? Worth mentioning I don't have a car, so car sex is not an option

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Title 3rd date no sex, because of me, what to do?
Author Emotional_Muscle3364
Upvotes 2
Comments 5
Date December 3, 2021 4:20 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]ajajaj99 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She may have already relocated you in her mind file to friend. But you need some sexual aggression man. Women want to be led sexually. You can’t have two passive aggressive tards In the sheets. Invite her over and have food there. Order pizza who cares. Tease her about having shoes on. Say something like “you plan on running a marathon tonight? Get comfortable”. Continue the king you’ve been building. This is important. While watching whatever grab her chin softly and turn her face to you and kiss her. Once you are hard unzip your pants and grab her hand and put it on your manhood. She will do the weak yank and tug most girls do. Slowly lay back but guide her head towards your chest and she will continue down. YOH CONTROL THE PACE. She controls consent never forget that though!

[–]beardestbird 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Next date plan for sex. Do it at her place OR when your dad isn’t there. If she rejects sex or even the idea of it I would next

[–]luciano1505 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You need to pull back for a while, let her think about you for a bit

Also don’t put all your eggs in one basket and just worry about this one girl. Once you realize its just a numbers game and that no girl is serious that natural sexual instinct and savageness will flow out of you because you wont care about the outcome

[–]Meloxian 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What’s the deal with the movies on the first date? Horrible idea for kino, unless you went to like a bar or something first, and shot some pool (escalating) and then went to the movies after, maybe.

[–]Emotional_Muscle3364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes I realized that at the moment lol, we talked and bit of kino like 20 mins before the movie and then 2 hours almost unable to even talk, terrible idea

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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