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9.5 tries to make me exclusive

curvedbymykind
January 28, 2022
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I’m dating another 7 and an 8 who are chill with not being exclusive. A 9.5 wants me to be exclusive with her, is this worth it? I have the highest connection with the 9.5 but I don’t want to develop oneitis. Should I just lie to her, but keep my plates on the side?

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Title 9.5 tries to make me exclusive
Author curvedbymykind
Upvotes 3
Comments 18
Date January 28, 2022 6:16 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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Comments

[–]Meloxian 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

A 9.5 - what are you brad Pitt?

[–]mamaboyinStreets 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He actually could be.. check his profile. Dude is on different mode.

[–]Sudden-Complaint7037 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nigga posted a handful of probably fake Tinder screenshots half a year ago, is most active on Anime subs and posts humblebrag questions with no real point on here.

Do you believe everything people tell you?

[–]holyshocker 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Redpill is amoral. It's up to you if you want to be a liar.

[–]trinitrotolueneblast -3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What do you mean by redpill is amoral?

Want 3 women in your life be a man and say so. Doesn’t mean U don’t love her. Love is for everyone. Maybe she is a jealous woman. She might walk. She might stay. Nothing you can do about it. Maybe you don’t want to risk losing her, in which case you’ve already lost. What are your principles? What do you want in life? Work from there. Be honest and upfront and don’t apologize for it. As long as you’re true to yourself you are RP. U can’t control the people worth being around so don’t bother trying

[–]holyshocker 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He asked if he should lie which is a moral thing and not a redpill question.

[–]trinitrotolueneblast 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ahh I understand. I agree

[–]Counter_Proposition 5 points6 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Should I just lie to her, but keep my plates on the side?

No, I wouldn't. Relationships built on dishonesty are doomed to fail. Better to just not start one at all if that's how it would go.

I have the highest connection with the 9.5 but I don’t want to develop oneitis.

Ask yourself: do you want a LTR with her, or do you want to bang other girls....what you do YOU really want?

Don't overthink it, just decide what you want and go after it. That's true alpha behavior.

[–]curvedbymykind[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

It's hard to have a LTR with her, she lives 6 hours away from me. I don't do well in long distance - if we lived together I'd choose her in a heart beat. But she wants me to be exclusive to her while we do long distance.. Is it fair to put more thought into this or I still shouldn't overthink?

[–]Give_Praise_Unto_Me 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

But she wants me to be exclusive to her while we do long distance

Buddy.....

[–]curvedbymykind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao I know what I gotta do

[–]Counter_Proposition 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Long distance = automatic no IMO.

[–]fuckboychadlmao 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. Wouldn’t do it.

[–]beardestbird 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lying makes things harder in the long run. That being said if you do decide to lie your plates have to know you’re in a relationship and be down with the program. Otherwise it’s not gonna work.

It doesn’t seem like you want to lie so I recommend getting with the 9.5 and making sure you don’t develop oneitis. I would do this by reassuring yourself you can attract more women. Simply by having dating apps on your phone and leaving it there and letting women message you sounds fine.

Or you can try and stretch out the 9.5 longer. Tell her you want to take it slow etc.

[–]TeslaPills 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bang all 3

[–]dunkeldserver 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm sure there's pros, cons and complexities between all 3 that can't be reduced down to your rating system, which poses an issue with giving any useful advice - other than no, you shouldn't lie to her. That will inevitably create bigger dillemas than what you currently have.

[–]throwitdownman 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just if you wanna give me something to aim for, would you mind sharing your height/weight/ethnicity? Cus you be pullin’ bitches

[–]IntelligenceLtd 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would really be interested in seeing if this girl is actually a 9.5 lol but nah just let her leave if she really wants and wait to see if she comes back (but be freinds and let her see the good life youre living) lying is for little bitches because if youre scared to lose her (otherwise why would you lie) youve got oneitis already and tbh if she is really a 9.5 (x for doubt) and shes not got the red flags (again x for doubt) why go on the GF flex and the MRP lifestyle (which as they say is RP on hardmode to justify them them realising their SMV is declining) there are worse things than having a GF and if she does have insecureties or bisexual tendencies you never know what you might get out of it (this is also a minefeild in itself)

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