I will try to make this concise. I have had a lot of one night stands. Only 6 or so have returned for more. I have gotten fairly good at picking up women but I am god awful at keeping them coming back.

Here’s the thing, a lot of the women are extremely into me before, during, and after sex, with many vocalizing how attractive they think I am and that they’d like to see me again. However something changes soon after that first hookup. They’ll message me frequently for a few days after the first hookup but they slowly begin to lose interest over time to the point where I do not see most of them again.

I have my theories as to why this is. Maybe it’s because I ask them too soon to hang out again and it causes me to give off desperate vibes. Maybe they sense the fact that I’m insecure and it’s a turn off.

Whatever the case may be, women start off very attracted to me and they seem to enjoy the sex, but over them they always seem to lose attraction before we hangout again.

I just want to break this cycle, any advice??