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Anyone have templates for random out-of-the-blue texts or pings after a convo lost momentum?

July 24, 2021
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I dislike this, I could be messaging back and forth w/ some connects from apps or even this weekend's bar only to get busy with work on Monday to Wednesday. I can text but likely am out of energy or ideas to go back and forth, and even talking on the phone felt off, simply because I'm in "work" mode or generally an introvert.

What are some creative ways to ping or re-open convos? I'm out of ideas trying to pick things back up again for a 1st or 2nd date (after the number and texting) when the next weekend closes

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Title Anyone have templates for random out-of-the-blue texts or pings after a convo lost momentum?
Author biscotti-raspberry
Upvotes 1
Comments 8
Date July 24, 2021 6:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]lolomotif12 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I call it the "hail mary", just go;

"So, when am I clapping those cheeks?"

If she replies, she likes it and knows what's up. If not, then next move on.

[–]the1truthteller 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmfaooo

[–]Give_Praise_Unto_Me 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Has that ever worked lolol

[–]lolomotif12 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Plenty. Here is my most recent hail mary.

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[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Bro if you're exhausted and busy otherwise, don't bother wasting energy on chitchat. And what are you doing that's drying up the convo? You should be texting her for logistics and then meet her. Which you seem to have done. So? What happened during the date? You left the most important part out.

[–]biscotti-raspberry[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Date went well. I think closing it w/ a kiss and major escalation should have been better but we kept texting afterwards.

I only ever use texting for setting updates so it just dries up and the replies are not with energy. High chance I'd get a "sorry, busy, not interested"

[–]i-am-the-prize 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

High chance I'd get a "sorry, busy, not interested"

good, then you polarized and cleared the decks. as a busy guy, you should enjoy checklists.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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