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Are you supposed to not respond to texts during a soft next?

April 27, 2022

I try to soft next a girl for at least a week, and she always texts me the very next day after I distance myself. Should I respond or keep softnexting?

The soft next in this case is because de did some annoying shit trying to cause drama like trying to make me jealous and other low value behavior like blatantly seeking attention from other men online.

I started ignoring her yesterday and today she texted me "Hi how are you".

I'm not trying to next hard her but gotdamn give me a few fucking days. Not sure if ignoring her texts is dramatic from me though?

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Title Are you supposed to not respond to texts during a soft next?
Author Skepdren
Upvotes 2
Comments 2
Date April 27, 2022 12:51 AM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]Pork_Sword3 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hard next is completely cutting them off and moving on, so this would be blocking her on all platforms and never speaking to her again. Soft next is more akin to a punishment for bad behaviour. During soft next the idea is that you do not reply to any of the messages, calls or any type of actions that would seek to get your attention. From what you have said, this girl would be a hard next for me, sounds like real petty drama but if you think you can deal with this kind of behaviour or hopefully she ceases this behaviour because of your boundaries and soft nexting her then a week is probably a good amount of time to avoid contact with her in response to this kind of behaviour.

[–]319Skew 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well put

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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