If I match with a girl, I send her this name but change "Mary" to the girl's actual name:

Hi Mary! I'm so glad we matched and I look forward to getting to know you. đź‘Ť

When a match and I have a great connection but she stops replying (stops acting interesting in my humor/charisma) I type a sneaky message followed by just "hi"

  1. (I'm just responding to move your profile to the top of my messages inbox)
  1. hi

I do it this way to confuse the girl because the 2nd message acts like I'm reaching out to her but the first message looks like it took 90% of my focus/time/energy. I try to create intrigue and make the girl reply ONLY TO TEST what my intent was.

Sadly my reminder messages usually get a response like "Sorry, I've just been very busy these last few days!"

What am I supposed to say when a girl says this with this exact response?

And secondly, what does her response mean? I don't give a shit about the past few days. I'm just letting her know I'm still interested in chatting if she is. Her response doesn't indicate if she still has any interest in chatting or not, so I don't know what the fuck to say after that. I usually just say "no problem, I've been really busy the last couple days also, I'll try you tomorrow! Stay on top of life, because real-life is 10x more important than Tinder!" (or something equally lame/autistic).

My total Tinder results have been mind-blowing because it taught me that hot girls are simply not worth the time. I actually like girls who are ugly like me, lol. Hot girls just block you THE VERY FIRST MISTAKE YOU MAKE and you get heartbroken because you get your hopes up when a hot girl matches you, lol.