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Can touch her everywhere but would not let me makeout with her

October 15, 2021

Escalated with a girl (at her place) i have been hanging out with a couple of times, she has let me touch her everywhere, but she wont allow me to make out with her.

We haven't had sex yet and she said that she saw me as a friend, i deflected the shit test and kept escalating.

I tried to kiss couple of more times before i said im going to leave, but she told me to not leave and held me physically holding me back and not letting me leave. She also started to rub my balls and cock to get me hard but still wouldn't let me kiss her og escalate futher by rubbin her pussy. After some time i just left and she was upset.

I soft nexted her and wont meet up with her unless she contacts me again.

How could i better escalate things? i tried several times but she still would not let me kiss her and wasn't enthusiastic when i kissed her body and touched her body.

Thanks for the help i andvance kings

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Title Can touch her everywhere but would not let me makeout with her
Author hailmary2020
Upvotes 1
Comments 4
Date October 15, 2021 11:49 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/can-touch-her-everywhere-but-would-not-let-me.1095179
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/q8ms4k/can_touch_her_everywhere_but_would_not_let_me/
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[–]entrep4 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Time waster. Delete her number and move on.

[–]jobadahut76 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What are you guys talking about. I wish I didn't have to make-out to feel on their asses

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

recently had a similar situation. girl had mentioned early on that she absolutely never kisses on the 1st date (cool I don't either), date 2 back to my place when I go to kiss she literally blows my lips and hand away. so I froze her out for 20 min and she starts trying to make thing sexual, stands up and is showing off her butt and has me grab it. but at this point I was just so off put from her blowing at me that I just said "hey I gotta be up early, think you should go". she hit me up later to hang out again but it just didn't seem worth my time. it was obvious she has some sort of trauma related to kissing or something similar which gives her a strong negative emotional response from kissing. so yeah I think some (very rare though) girls just have a weird thing with kissing, up to you if you wanna work through that with her, I decided it definitely wasn't worth it for me, so yeah my recommendation is soft next and if she hits you up to come over you can give it one more chance, but if it happens again you gotta hard next her.

so it's either that or what the other poster said, she's a time waster trying to keep you in orbit.

oh and the fact that she said she sees you as a friend is huge sign of disinterest. usually an automatic next if you hear that

[–]Azshira 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Idk what’s up with you guys and wanting to kiss every set of lips under the sun. Herpes is very real, and if you‘re fucking someone casually then you shouldn’t be kissing them willy nilly.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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