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Club game: Do girls strategically position themselves near you?

June 4, 2022

In clubs and bars, do girls come and stand beside you because they are interested or they just "happen" to be there.

Of course regardless of that; I'm going to talk if I like them. But I'm just curious about how girls think.

My main question is- do they actively do things like position themselves near a guy, or "bump" into you; or do they just hang around and think a guy will magically appear?

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Title Club game: Do girls strategically position themselves near you?
Author AvgHingeUser
Upvotes 5
Comments 10
Date June 4, 2022 11:16 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]319Skew 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If a woman comes close to you assume attraction and react accordingly. Any physical contact is an IOI.

[–]AvgHingeUser[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Got any fun openers/routines?

I usually say 'I like your vibe or how you doing tonight.' and then 'where are you from' and also 'what brings you here tonight' and ask for a name.

Initiate kino, if she is responding and with her friends/ say I want to do shots with her.

[–]319Skew 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, if she approaches you, touches you, or gives you any clear IOI then she's attracted to you. Assume attraction and go for the pick up.

You can almost say anything remotely charming and that'd be an opener.


"I almost wore the same outfit."
"You seem interesting."
*Pull out hand* "Hey I'm <name>"

If it's a set:

"So, which of you is the troublemaker?"

"Sisters?" (Bonus if they're different races)

"I'm gonna steal your friend for a moment. Don't worry, I'll bring her back in a bit."

If you get physically closer and she's giving you additional IOIs, escalating or touching you then...

Physical Kino:

"I'm cold. Come closer."

"You work out?" *touch her arm* get her to flex.

"Excuse me for a bit" *touch her lower back and move yourself closer to her* "Much better".

Those are some basics to start. Honestly, go ham. You'll figure out what works for you after trial and error.

[–]Taipoe 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Usually I just say how are you doing tonight and then ask them to dance with me if they say no then move on. Don’t ask where they are from cause can be seen as creepy if you don’t say it right. Be confident if they arent dancing with you within 4 sentences then next

[–]PaleoPimp 8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Club game sucks dude. Always too many men with too little women. Then the women have the upper hand in the situation and hypergamy takes place. I don't know how to be consistent in club game. But I would find other means of finding women. But yea women are sneaky like that in the club, but it's not very effective cause you never know who knocked into you unless they're in front of you lol

[–]AvgHingeUser[S] 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

idk man. Everything sucks imo. Online apps, club game, day game too (cause you're a complete stranger; Unless I'm wrong? ). Can't hit on girls in social circle as well cause need to be more careful/not become the weird outcast.

Unless I've missed some other ways to meet girls

[–]PaleoPimp 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yea I totally understand what you're saying...and agree to an extent. If you have a solid social circle, your own apartment/house in a place with a big population, and have decent game/style/fitness. You'd probably slay, but most of us aren't in that position yet. I hate cities and so I'm even at more of a disadvantage, the numbers game won't work with a low population place.

[–]AvgHingeUser[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hmm halfway there. Own place and live in big city but don’t slay. Although started approaching women HONESTLY with a redpill mindset and not piss drunk since 4 weeks. Made out with a girl and some titty action in a bathroom, a super drunk girl approached me on the street and we made out… but a fuck ton of rejections from other girls.

Man this shit is tough. Have NO CLUE if I’m attractive or not. Some girls think I’m the hot shit, others think I’m not attractive at all. The girls who like me are all over the place (blondes, Mexicans, brunettes, tattooed girls etc) same fucking thing for girls who reject me. The rejections are SO BRUTAL dude. Like they just wave their hand away at me like I’m nothing.

The one group who consistently hate me; and I have a rule of not approaching these bitches - Indian girls

Almost as if it’s nothing but a numbers game at the end

[–]PaleoPimp 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the hardest thing about going after chicks is knowing that the reason you get rejected may not be because of you specifically. But factors that you can't control like her having a boyfriend, her having a full cock carousel, etc. I always want to blame myself and take responsibility, but that's harsh unless I personally know the girl isn't getting any guys and is rejecting you because of you. Don't take these rejections seriously, it's not always you and most of the time it probably isn't.

[–]SweatySnow666 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Too many men and too little women? If so, you should try different clubs my man! I love getting girls at the club because it’s the perfect combination of all the good things to get the girl. There is music, dancing and alcohol! Plz don’t get shitfaces on alcohol. You’ll ruin every chance to getting girls.

These are the rules I live when getting at a party/club/race.

First of all: ENJOY YOURSELF. Enjoy the party man! Go to a party to dance, to see your friends, to fistbump on some great techno, or flex some gangsigns on some rnb rapmusic (idunno do some nay-nay-shit-don’t care type of stuff). Lay back with your friends at the bar. Get to know the dj. Take some pics. Girls will automatically see you’re having a good time. Guys are going to be jealous and wanna be like you. That’s it! Just don’t be that creepy guy who’s breathing down the neck of every girl they see. Waiting, begging for a girls attention, sweaty palms, trembling knees, not enjoying yourself because you’re not getting girls. “Oh did she just touch my arm? Maybe that’s a sign?” Starts grinding her without consent. NO fuck that shit. You’re to busy enjoying your life at parties. You are the party and everyone knows.

Girls want a guy to be fun to be around. Be fun. When a girl is looking at you. Smile. Yes, she smiles back. Aight go on approaching her (NOT FROM THE BACK. Think of creepy sweaty-palms-guy). Approaching her from the side works best for me. The thing I sayfor openings is just the most simple shit ever, sure you can do some cheasy pickuplines etc, but just keep it simple as: “I haven’t seen you here before” or “come here often?” or “you look like someone I would love to know more about” but say it with confidence. Like you really mean it.

Get to know her. Enjoy talking to her. Sure, you’ll get rejected, happens to the best of us. Enjoys her company and make her enjoy yours to. Sure she could shit-test you, tease her back. Have fun while doing it. Ask her for a dance if the vibe’s right or if you can’t find anything to talk about ask her for her number and say: “I would love to keep in touch”. Go dance and keep enjoying life. Go dance with other women. U’r the shit.

Aight guys peace! Going to work now

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