Do You Think This Mistake Regarding Status at College Is A Common One?

Hey boys, My college was very Greek Heavy like many big schools.

I was a pretty attractive guy but my mind would constantly tell myself I’m “below” the guys with frat status and this led to so many god damn missed opportunities.

My mind kept telling me “If they see a GDI like me with hot girls, there gonna wonder doesn’t he know he has to be in Greek Life to get them” if that makes sense

I’m just curious if you think this is a common problem with guys when they hit college? It’s just not spoken about much because,well, the “confusion” is apart of the whole “mating game” I guess