Whatever she says. Don't believe her. Whether she tries to look innocent and like wifey material by saying "I only do it with the man I love" or "I love my male friends like brothers", don't believe her. She doesn't know what she's talking about and frankly, she doesn't know what she actually wants either.

It's on you to know what's good for her and to lead her. Don't think about trivial emotional bullshit that might bother her or whether she's jealous because that fatass Latina looked at you while you were at Starbucks. She might say "what the fuck does this bitch want?" or confront you later at home. But in reality she fucking loves it. She likes it that other women want you. That's why it's important to be on your A game. Be fit and take care of yourself. Women will want to jump at you and the ones that realize this will react the same way, probably even more intensely.

She wants a loyal and respectful man? That's some nonsense she says in public so nobody judges her. She wants a man, an animal, a fearless beast. Never fall for that gentleman trap. Once you do, you open up another shit test avenue you'll have to defend henceforth.

I'm not saying be disrespectful or an asshole. But be honest and speak your mind. Don't be apologetic about it. She looks fat in that dress? Tell her. She wants to go to another restaurant? No, she wants you to pick one and be persistent about it. Don't tell her that you know what she actually wants or what she's implying. Just adjust and act accordingly.

Some say relationships are about making compromises. They're not. They're about leading and following. You lead and she follows. You make her life more valuable by protecting her and giving her safety and she makes your life more valuable by giving you peace and loyalty.