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Feel disrespected by gf what should I do

May 31, 2022

My gf of 6 months added me to a gc with 7 her friends I’ve never met. It was all jokes and fun until some guy named Andre (apparently a mysogenist that no one likes) was talking about how woman who give it up easy shouldn’t be taken serious. This bought up an argument between my gf and andre and eventually Andre said “you had this dick in your mouth”. She responds with “what dick” and they go back n forth making sexual insulting jokes while I was reading the whole thing.

I texted her directly saying wtf that was about.

“Oh I forgot to tell you abt that.”

“About what”

“The thing”

“What thing”

“Him and I had a summer fling, we never had sex though”.

I will admit I got a little emotional and said “you fucked all of your friends or just the cute ones”. She tried playing the victim card as usual saying I was slutshamming after the only remark I made.

I didn’t feel like going on about it and just want space atm so I said-

“If it was some random guy then it’s my job to defend you. I have no reason to press him bc that’s YOUR friend that you’ve fucked. You tell him to not talk to you like that but instead you fuckin play along while I’m right there? On top of that you don’t even tell me. No woman of MINE does that to me that’s not acceptable. I’m pissed off I will talk to you when I do”.

I don’t think I’m being too emotional, I feel like this is a valid reason to feel upset. I feel disrespected. Supprisingly though, I feel a lot less angry then I thought I would be. I’m just enjoying a movie with my fam.

Anyways, I’m just wondering if I handled the situation well. What are your guys thoughts on the situation. What’s the next move? Should I always text the dude?

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Title Feel disrespected by gf what should I do
Author Nearby_Ad_5684
Upvotes 6
Comments 19
Date May 31, 2022 5:52 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]319Skew 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go to the main page trp page and read the side bar.

Learn about vetting, red flags, frame, self respect, etc.

There's a lot of things that are wrong with that verbal diarrhea that you typed out.

[–]curvedbymykind 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmfao so she sucked his dick, drank his juices now they makin sex jokes in front of you, now you believing their lies? 😆

[–]bambam12367 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Leave bro just leave

[–]Potential_Respond224 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link



Any bitch that responds to hey you fucked your friends with "stop slut shaming me" doesn't deserve your attention

[–]Ironside29 13 points14 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

None of them have 0 respect for you, she def fucked him, who knows how many other “friends” aswell, you lost frame and your gf isnt ltr material.

[–]Nearby_Ad_5684 -1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

What’s ltr material to u

[–]Ironside29 15 points16 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

A girl that doesnt talk in group chat with a dude how she sucked his cock, while her boyfriend and others are reading it.

[–]Nearby_Ad_5684 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I’m asking you though, what type of woman/what would a woman’s traits need to be for you to be in an LTR

[–]Problematicdudebro 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A womans traits need to be for an ltr, are.

They haven't sucked so much dick they literally can't keep track.

They don't have a reason they could be slut shamed. (Low body count)

[–]Taipoe 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ideally a woman who hasn’t sucked/fucked their friends. Also just fyi they definitely fucked.

[–]1tayg3r 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

A virgin submissive woman or a submissibe woman with only one body count

[–]Taipoe 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What should you do??? Break up with her and find someone that hasn’t sucked their friends’ dicks LOL. You gotta read the sidebar

[–]holyshocker 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Put a boundary of no guy friends and look controlling or ghost her ass and find a girl who doesn't have guys for friends who she's sucked before lmao

[–]stonedsoldierr 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Leave bro i promise she is not worth it I promise being alone is better than being with some slut

[–]stonedsoldierr 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]1tayg3r 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'd bet you're the same age with that girl or probs one or two yrs older. I'd advice you to date someone who you're older than with at least 5yrs. Also being in the same group with your woman is a huge red flag unless you're a gigachad who all the dudes respect and all the girls want to smash

[–]Nearby_Ad_5684 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Im 19 she’s 21 so I don’t have a lot of ‘5 year’ room space unless I wanna end up in jail lmao. Im not in the same group with her. It was a random gc I was added to.

[–]1tayg3r 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Then she's probs gonna treat you as her kid bro lol

[–]Agreeable_Wallaby637 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

She ate him bro

She a eater

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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