I don’t know where to go from here. It’s been almost 4 years since I had any type of relationship, casual or serious. I’m in college which should be my prime time to meet people and yet nothing. Tried online dating, over 250 matches in the past 2 months and not a single one actually met up with me. Mostly all of them were average or below average women, and they just don’t bother responding because they have 50 more options to choose from. I’m not an ugly guy, I’m lean, 5,9, decent facial features, good hair and style. I present an image of success and wealth since I get to travel a lot and have a luxury apartment.

The problem is I don’t know how to open my fucking mouth and start talking. I see girls all the time staring at me and giving me blatant IOIs, and I just do nothing and sit on the side and curse myself for missing the opportunity. Can’t even make eye contact back. My game sucks. I can hold conversation pretty well but it’s never flirty or sexual.

I feel so dejected, I know the problem is with me not approaching. And I know the answer is as simple as “start approaching”. I tell myself this everyday and yet I still can’t get over this anxiety. I don’t even know what I’m trying to achieve with this post. Just wanted to vent my frustrations I guess.