Gf slept with her friends on a guys house

curvedbymykind · 2022-02-05T16:51:07+00:00

She then got drunk and since she was the one driving, everyone just slept at the guys house (no ubers available).

LMFAO

FynWorld689 · 2022-02-05T03:33:22+00:00

The mental trips are hard, man. Sometimes we think we're not being reasonable but jealousy usually has a reason of being if you're usually a reasonable dude.

I wouldn't talk to her again until your anger has subsided.
When it does, I would tell her that what she did bothered you, and tell her (AND HERE IS WHY YOU'RE FEELING LIKE THIS) to think of her reaction if you did the same she did. She would have probably gone fucking crazy. You can trust someone, but when they put themselves in situations that can go south real quick, they're fucking up.

So it's either, don't push stuff like this anymore or I'm leaving, or if you want to do stuff like this we're changing the relationship to open relationship or whatever you need, if you feel like doing that.

As always, when they fuck up, you let her know, calmly, and then you take your precious time and love away for as much as you need. Dick she can get anywhere, but not what you give to her. Get her chasing you. If she pulls shit like this again, you might consider leaving, to be honest. It's tough man, but she gotta know you're ready to leave, if she thinks she's certain of you, she'll start acting up. It is how it is.

hltr78 · 2022-02-05T02:34:47+00:00

Don’t respond to her ever again and run dread game on her. No more wasting time or money on her with dates. If you want to keep, then just strictly sex since she demoted herself to it. If she wants more she can go fuck herself

St3phanW · 2022-02-05T13:51:01+00:00

The reactions here show how fucking delusional some of the guys here are. You guys ever been in a serious relationship? Obviously I don’t know your girl but I wouldn’t think too much of this. Just a young girl who wants to have fun with her (probably) single friends. This doesn’t mean she is jumping on all the dicks with them? If you think she is that’s a big trust issue in which case you shouldn’t be in an ltr anyway.

Now everybody has their own boundaries of course, but I think you should trust her to behave herself there. The reality is, that if she wants to cheat she is gonna do it anyway and there is nothing you could do about it. If you can’t trust her to not do anything here I’d just break up with her. I’d be very careful in saying how you don’t like this behavior, because she will think you are insecure, although I understand you are uncomfortable with this. The guys saying here you should ‘enforce’ boundaries by talking to here obviously have no real experience with ltrs. Enforcing is breaking up, otherwise I’d just trust her and not make a big deal out of it.

Edit: What is important is how drunk she got. If she gets blackout-shitfaced drunk that’s a big red flag. But just regular “fun” drinking I wouldn’t think too much.

TeslaPills · 2022-02-05T13:26:59+00:00

Honestly bro hard next….. maybe bang one more time then break up and let her know why….

Yeah sorry but no this is questionable behavior at best. There are many girls you’ll never worry about this with. Trust me it sounds like mumbojumbo but it’s not. Once a woman feels like she can do stuff like this once she will do it again trust me. What happens when she does it again? Yeah fuck this girl. I’m sure she’s average at best anyways

i-reddit-ck · 2022-02-05T19:39:08+00:00

I think you’re overreacting a little bit. She got drunk, she couldn’t drive, what else was suppose to happen? To prevent this you couldve told her to not get so drunk that they’d have to spend the night. It already happened, calmly tell her you don’t like what she did, don’t argue, don’t get emotional. No need to soft/hard next. If she crosses this boundary again then that’s when you demote her to a plate.

beardestbird · 2022-02-06T00:54:49+00:00

Times like this I wish the main rp sub was more active

But bro just imagine you went and slept at girls house (let’s say the girl is hotter than your girl) drunk. Do you think your girl would be reacting fine? No? Then it’s a problem

I’d reread red pill rules and figure out what to do but that is a boundary that’s weird and odd. Why couldn’t they sleep at a girls house?

Title	Gf slept with her friends on a guys house
Author	neatbranch
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Date	February 5, 2022 2:31 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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