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Girl I dated apparently got a boyfriend, but we still have another date next week, how to handle this?

December 25, 2021

Matched on tinder, 3 dates and already made out with her since date 2, but still no sex.

I wanted to turn her into a plate or even potential ltr

Didn't see her in about 3 weeks, and suddenly posts a story with a guy with a "i love you" quote, si I guess new bf

The same day I texted her to ask her out and she agreed, didn't mention anything about a bf, but I'm expecting to her mentioning this on the date and maybe something along "let's keep being friends" or some bs

How would you handle this if you still want to get involved with her?

I'm already dating other girls but i really like this one, so I'm trying to save it.

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Title Girl I dated apparently got a boyfriend, but we still have another date next week, how to handle this?
Author WonderfulPipe
Upvotes 3
Comments 9
Date December 25, 2021 12:11 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/girl-i-dated-apparently-got-a-boyfriend-but-we.1095311
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/rny7r6/girl_i_dated_apparently_got_a_boyfriend_but_we/
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[–]lolomotif12 10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

even potential ltr

After only 2 dates lol

OP, my advice is stop touching women until you have read the sidebar.

[–]WonderfulPipe[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I didn't meant like now, with potentially I meant something like "she's cute and actually fun to be with, maybe in the future I could see it happening" but obviously not after meeting her so recent

And yes I'm still on it haha

[–]lolomotif12 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is scarcity mentality my friend, get rid of it.

[–]WonderfulPipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're right, I guess I still need to get with more girls and develop more abundance

[–]beardestbird 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just don’t fall in love and have fun.

[–]winefox 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

And use protection obviously

[–]bigblackshaq 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Playing devil's advocate, I would go against /u/beardestbird and say don't get in this mess if she really said "i love you" in the story. You never know what the guy is capable of doing in the heat of the moment.

I suggest you ask about this next time you see her. If she denies tell her you saw the story. If she admits she does in fact have a guy break it off, there are a ton more fish in the sea

[–]beardestbird 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Huh? It’s not his business and she wants him sexually. Who cares

[–]bigblackshaq 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If this is just to satisfy his sexual needs, then sure, but OP wrote this

I wanted to turn her into a plate or even potential ltr

You lose them the same way you get them. Remember this.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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